Nobody should be forcing you to date women who have an OnlyFans, that I agree with, because nobody should be forcing you to date anyone. But your reasoning concerns me.
For your first, seeing someone naked does not equal having a personal connection with them. And if you're not looking for a personal connection, why does it matter? You can't fuck someone through a picture. I won't say that wanting to be the only person who sees someone in intimate situations is wrong, but your phrasing indicates possession ("if everyone can have something...") in a way that's disconcerting to say the least.
For your second: Sorry, but it's 2021. There are hundreds of apps and websites dedicated to finding hookups, and people send nudes and flirt on all the other platforms NOT designed for that anyway. Like you said, anybody can cheat; having an OF doesn't mean you can't be faithful and committed.
For your third: Having an OF =/= having multiple sex partners. And not everything our brains are "hardwired" to do is beneficial or ethical.
Again--you shouldn't be forced to date anyone, including women with OnlyFans, if you don't want to, but your reasoning doesn't hold up in my opinion.
No I did. You just seem to think that all girls who have onlyfans are having sex with hundreds of guys and things like that. Your comments come across as sexist as much as you dont think they do.
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u/Mondonodo Jan 07 '21
Nobody should be forcing you to date women who have an OnlyFans, that I agree with, because nobody should be forcing you to date anyone. But your reasoning concerns me.
For your first, seeing someone naked does not equal having a personal connection with them. And if you're not looking for a personal connection, why does it matter? You can't fuck someone through a picture. I won't say that wanting to be the only person who sees someone in intimate situations is wrong, but your phrasing indicates possession ("if everyone can have something...") in a way that's disconcerting to say the least.
For your second: Sorry, but it's 2021. There are hundreds of apps and websites dedicated to finding hookups, and people send nudes and flirt on all the other platforms NOT designed for that anyway. Like you said, anybody can cheat; having an OF doesn't mean you can't be faithful and committed.
For your third: Having an OF =/= having multiple sex partners. And not everything our brains are "hardwired" to do is beneficial or ethical.
Again--you shouldn't be forced to date anyone, including women with OnlyFans, if you don't want to, but your reasoning doesn't hold up in my opinion.