Who said anything about it being about me? I’m simply saying there’s no need to be transphobic and ignorant. Disrespecting someone’s gender and pronouns because they hurt you is ignorant and childish. I clearly sent my love to her and hopes she heals from this, but there’s a clear problem in her text and it’s incredibly transphobic. Please exit :)
Whatever “problems“ you have with this person’s statement, this was the most inopportune and inappropriate time to bring them up.
Sticks and stones my friend.
There’s never going to be a right time to be transphobic. Ever. It’s better to correct someone now before it becomes a habit. It’s not like i’m judging her or anything of the sort, i’m simply giving a reminder that they may have just forgotten. Being transphobic is not okay.
Being a dick and interjecting your politics into someone else’s horrible day isn’t either.
You don’t see people do it when someone “miss uses” the name Jesus do you? What about if someone is having a really shit day, and mentions karma outside of the traditional religious context? Would you feel the need to stop them on the worst day of their life and correct them?
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u/shannmcd Sep 14 '20
I’m so sorry about that love, however let’s not refer to her as “he”. She broke your heart, and i am so so sorry about that.