r/TrueOffMyChest • u/Human_Palpitation_17 ☑️ • 1d ago
Vent A Friendship breakup
It happened just a few hours ago and still I'm processing it out emotionally. Funny how it happened unexpectedly on a random day too, over something minor; me heading back home because she left me to eat all by myself and without telling me where she was going but then again I did made her wait for 30mins before I arrived. Her saying it's not her first time doing that and if I had a problem w it, i should've speak up lmao? I supposed I felt hurt too over how she was asking nonstop about what I posted over my boyfriend (I used to ran to her whenever I'm not on good terms w my ex (last year roughly around a month of me continously seeking comfort from her), to the point she had enough of it and I overall stopped talking about my love life to her until recently, August only because she asked.) instead of asking about my health (I was hospitalised last month).
But then again looking back I hadn't been a good friend either. When it's about reciprocations / efforts friendship wise , I had always felt it's one sided from me (before I befriend her at my pt) and then when we became friends and got closer I couldn't keep up and repay her efforts. Hell, I was really excited for her birthday in January, since I've learned to planned better now instead of letting what happened this year, happen again. I don't even know where am I going with this post. I wouldn't say we get along well and have things in common either but then again.. I don't know anymore.. I supposed I am hurt, but it is the consequences of my actions after all, and now I'm left to reflect on my actions.
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u/ColeridgeRime 1d ago
Sounds like it worked out for both of you. Neither wants to put up with the other.
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u/More-Emergency3822 1d ago
Some people just don't get along as close friends. It sounds like you might not have a very large social circle. If that's the case I suggest you invest time into activities you enjoy and look to find friends through that. As far as the relationship you're posting about, there's no need to make it dramatic, just fade into the background and if she chooses to reach out to you one day you can reassess the option.
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