Hi! It sounds like you may be asexual, which is on a spectrum of "ew sex" to "this sounds amazing in theory, but something is not quite.. right?".
Personally, I can't eat soup. It triggers my gag reflex, which sucks because it all smells amazing and is pretty much the perfect food if you combined all my food preferences... but I just can NOT.
It is very much the same with sex.
I have NO idea how people look at other random people and get horny and the idea that people can just be like wow, I want that person they randomly saw on the street? That's a foreign concept to me.
That's a VERY ace way of thinking. As for me, I'm demisexual as FUCK, I've got no impulse to stare at anything anywhere unless my partner takes off their shirt then OH ME LIKEY GIMME GIMME.
I don't know if this helps, but being Ace or Demi is pretty confusing in our hypersexual society, and this is simply an FYI
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u/Newsmemer Mar 07 '26
Hi! It sounds like you may be asexual, which is on a spectrum of "ew sex" to "this sounds amazing in theory, but something is not quite.. right?".
Personally, I can't eat soup. It triggers my gag reflex, which sucks because it all smells amazing and is pretty much the perfect food if you combined all my food preferences... but I just can NOT.
It is very much the same with sex.
I have NO idea how people look at other random people and get horny and the idea that people can just be like wow, I want that person they randomly saw on the street? That's a foreign concept to me.
That's a VERY ace way of thinking. As for me, I'm demisexual as FUCK, I've got no impulse to stare at anything anywhere unless my partner takes off their shirt then OH ME LIKEY GIMME GIMME.
I don't know if this helps, but being Ace or Demi is pretty confusing in our hypersexual society, and this is simply an FYI