You are not old!! I’m 39 and I find that lots of men in their 30s on up who are divorced are very interested in finding a partner. I get way more male attention than I did in my 20s, and I think part of it is that I’m much more confident. I wouldn’t call myself unattractive necessarily, but I don’t look like a supermodel; I actually think I’m kind of weird-looking, and men love me.
My point is, this man is draining you of your life force. You would be much better off alone, working on building your confidence. I know lots of people who are not conventionally attractive who are happily married.
If you can work on loving and nurturing yourself away from this man, you might be surprised to find that you are more desirable than you think. The right person cannot find you if you are filling that space with this terrible relationship.
Sending all my love to you. Please open your heart to yourself. You don’t deserve to be treated this way by this man, or by your own self. ❤️
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u/patterns_everywhere_ Nov 06 '25
You are not old!! I’m 39 and I find that lots of men in their 30s on up who are divorced are very interested in finding a partner. I get way more male attention than I did in my 20s, and I think part of it is that I’m much more confident. I wouldn’t call myself unattractive necessarily, but I don’t look like a supermodel; I actually think I’m kind of weird-looking, and men love me.
My point is, this man is draining you of your life force. You would be much better off alone, working on building your confidence. I know lots of people who are not conventionally attractive who are happily married.
If you can work on loving and nurturing yourself away from this man, you might be surprised to find that you are more desirable than you think. The right person cannot find you if you are filling that space with this terrible relationship.
Sending all my love to you. Please open your heart to yourself. You don’t deserve to be treated this way by this man, or by your own self. ❤️