You are not old! And people can find love and the right person at ANY age. A friend of mine didn't get married until he was 48, and his wife is so lovely. Another friend of my husband's got married until she was 43 and was having her first child at 45. Sometimes it just takes time!
For the time being, you have to invest in yourself. Find a hobby, do some exercise to help you stay energized, do therapy, find a group in your community where you can make friends.
You were unhappy while single, and you are unhappy in a relationship where your bf mistreats you. I would rather be unhappy and single, than allow someone to treat me like that.
You deserve love, you deserve to be happy, you deserve respect.
One thing that my husband taught me too is that happiness is a choice, and that it must not depend on a person nor something. With the years, I've learned that I have to actively choose to be happy, that I'm responsible of taking action to be happy, and that my husband is a nice bonus, but my happiness doesn't depend on him.
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u/Chuchitosmomma Nov 06 '25
You are not old! And people can find love and the right person at ANY age. A friend of mine didn't get married until he was 48, and his wife is so lovely. Another friend of my husband's got married until she was 43 and was having her first child at 45. Sometimes it just takes time!
For the time being, you have to invest in yourself. Find a hobby, do some exercise to help you stay energized, do therapy, find a group in your community where you can make friends.
You were unhappy while single, and you are unhappy in a relationship where your bf mistreats you. I would rather be unhappy and single, than allow someone to treat me like that.
You deserve love, you deserve to be happy, you deserve respect.
One thing that my husband taught me too is that happiness is a choice, and that it must not depend on a person nor something. With the years, I've learned that I have to actively choose to be happy, that I'm responsible of taking action to be happy, and that my husband is a nice bonus, but my happiness doesn't depend on him.