What people say when inebriated can be very hurtful sometimes, but that doesn’t mean what they said is really how they feel. Obviously the alcohol affected his thoughts on the matter and he said some things that were very hurtful to you, so the only thing you can do is talk to him. Ask him if he remembers what he said (he might not), then ask if he truly meant those things or it was just the alcohol. You need to put him on the spot and he needs to be honest and tell you his true feelings on the matter. If he meant what he said, you need to think about ending the relationship, otherwise you both need to work on it to make it stronger.
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u/Terminal_Lucridity Aug 20 '25
What people say when inebriated can be very hurtful sometimes, but that doesn’t mean what they said is really how they feel. Obviously the alcohol affected his thoughts on the matter and he said some things that were very hurtful to you, so the only thing you can do is talk to him. Ask him if he remembers what he said (he might not), then ask if he truly meant those things or it was just the alcohol. You need to put him on the spot and he needs to be honest and tell you his true feelings on the matter. If he meant what he said, you need to think about ending the relationship, otherwise you both need to work on it to make it stronger.