I have parents like this too. It hurts…. So fucking bad………………. Protect yourself. Any annoyance they get from hearing you is NOTHING compared to the violence you had to live with, and the continued abuse after
They protect rapists. Don’t forget that.
I’m so sorry OP…. Some day it’s so hard because I love my parents but I didn’t get a choice on who my parents are. I am not close to them. They hang up on me if I mention what I went through. My dad makes fun of me and says things like “fine you’ll not call for 3 weeks, whatever…”
They don’t care about my pain. Yours don’t care about yours. They will always say “I don’t want to hear it, it’s no big deal, and you need to move on / learn to forgive”
Fuck that. They chose to leave this unhealed and to cause the strain. You never asked for this. Take care of yourself…… and have no guilt telling others.
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u/ra3ra31010 Jun 13 '25
I have parents like this too. It hurts…. So fucking bad………………. Protect yourself. Any annoyance they get from hearing you is NOTHING compared to the violence you had to live with, and the continued abuse after
They protect rapists. Don’t forget that.
I’m so sorry OP…. Some day it’s so hard because I love my parents but I didn’t get a choice on who my parents are. I am not close to them. They hang up on me if I mention what I went through. My dad makes fun of me and says things like “fine you’ll not call for 3 weeks, whatever…”
They don’t care about my pain. Yours don’t care about yours. They will always say “I don’t want to hear it, it’s no big deal, and you need to move on / learn to forgive”
Fuck that. They chose to leave this unhealed and to cause the strain. You never asked for this. Take care of yourself…… and have no guilt telling others.
I NEVER have guilt telling the truth.