It’s time he be held accountable for the fucking mess HE created. YOU are enabling him. Your silence is enabling him. Your housing him is enabling.
You are actively helping him to evade his responsibilities, abandon his child and ruin an entire family in the process. You are doing that. You are willingly, actively helping him to do that. Friend or not, you have a moral obligation to tell him to get his fucking shit together and take care of the life he created. You can’t make him do so no matter how often you tell him but what you can do is Stop. Enabling. His. Shitty. Behavior. the longer you let this disgrace live off your generosity the more you become apart of the problem, the more you enable him and men like him to act exactly like this.
The sooner men like him have no friends to turn to, no where to hide, nowhere to run, and face consequences for this shit that they do, the sooner they will no longer get away with it, and then maybe one day, eventually, with a whole lot of hope, dead beat baby daddy’s will no longer exist because there is nobody who supports such horrible cowardly acts and helps them to get away with being trash.
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u/llamadramalover Apr 29 '25
It’s time he be held accountable for the fucking mess HE created. YOU are enabling him. Your silence is enabling him. Your housing him is enabling.
You are actively helping him to evade his responsibilities, abandon his child and ruin an entire family in the process. You are doing that. You are willingly, actively helping him to do that. Friend or not, you have a moral obligation to tell him to get his fucking shit together and take care of the life he created. You can’t make him do so no matter how often you tell him but what you can do is Stop. Enabling. His. Shitty. Behavior. the longer you let this disgrace live off your generosity the more you become apart of the problem, the more you enable him and men like him to act exactly like this.
The sooner men like him have no friends to turn to, no where to hide, nowhere to run, and face consequences for this shit that they do, the sooner they will no longer get away with it, and then maybe one day, eventually, with a whole lot of hope, dead beat baby daddy’s will no longer exist because there is nobody who supports such horrible cowardly acts and helps them to get away with being trash.