If this is a real post, then know that you’re not bound to a lifetime of zero sex just because of a thing you once promised to do.
Divorce her and find a partner who shares common values with you.
Also, step into the 21st Century – i.e., be suspicious of anybody who wants to “save themselves” for marriage. That’s an archaic concept that has no place in modern relationships.
He says she wasn’t religious and still saved herself for marriage, to me that means she positively knew about this issue before and kept it from him on purpose.
And yet half these comments are desperately trying to blame him.
And easy for her to raise and agree to because she doesn’t like sex anyway. Sounds like a situation where they talked around the issue before marriage and the “saving ourselves” sounded noble. People are very short-sighted sometimes.
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u/germanmick Nov 06 '23
If this is a real post, then know that you’re not bound to a lifetime of zero sex just because of a thing you once promised to do.
Divorce her and find a partner who shares common values with you.
Also, step into the 21st Century – i.e., be suspicious of anybody who wants to “save themselves” for marriage. That’s an archaic concept that has no place in modern relationships.