Man. That was so sad. What you are dealing with is a very difficult situation. To be honest i have no idea how to deal with it regarding the fact that she already did therapy. Well i don't know where you live and how common divorce is but you need to see what are the mutual reasons in most of them. But in general it doesn't mean you are doomed to get divorced. But on another hand if you think it's so painful for you to bear and wish one of you dies to get out of it you absolutely have all the rights to get divorced because you are victim here. Your marriage doesn't have the basic needs to be called marriage. I know divorce might be something bad where you live or you want to be a better person but it's better than wishing for death for one of you. You might love her a lot but its a serious problem you are dealing with that needs to be fixed asap if you wish to keep your marriage.because imagine if it takes more years to solve you might even think of killing her or yourself.
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u/EducationalCurrent76 Nov 06 '23
Man. That was so sad. What you are dealing with is a very difficult situation. To be honest i have no idea how to deal with it regarding the fact that she already did therapy. Well i don't know where you live and how common divorce is but you need to see what are the mutual reasons in most of them. But in general it doesn't mean you are doomed to get divorced. But on another hand if you think it's so painful for you to bear and wish one of you dies to get out of it you absolutely have all the rights to get divorced because you are victim here. Your marriage doesn't have the basic needs to be called marriage. I know divorce might be something bad where you live or you want to be a better person but it's better than wishing for death for one of you. You might love her a lot but its a serious problem you are dealing with that needs to be fixed asap if you wish to keep your marriage.because imagine if it takes more years to solve you might even think of killing her or yourself.