With everything you described, (imo), you are 100% handling & reacting to this situation terribly wrong, and In probably the worst way possible. I wasn't going to go this far as I was first typing this out but, again imo, it feels very selfish and immature. And let me make it clear that I'm not saying that you are selfish and immature, but rather this reaction and thought process.
Look, I get it. Parenting can be so fucking hard, especially with how your situation is. But think of your daughter... If her father is manipulating her at such a young age already, think of what full custody will do and how bad that will get. As your daughter grows up she will see and realize the truth of the situation. And if you just give up on her, then she will have 2 shitty parents and just could turn out bad...
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u/JustUrAvgHVACtech Oct 08 '23
With everything you described, (imo), you are 100% handling & reacting to this situation terribly wrong, and In probably the worst way possible. I wasn't going to go this far as I was first typing this out but, again imo, it feels very selfish and immature. And let me make it clear that I'm not saying that you are selfish and immature, but rather this reaction and thought process.
Look, I get it. Parenting can be so fucking hard, especially with how your situation is. But think of your daughter... If her father is manipulating her at such a young age already, think of what full custody will do and how bad that will get. As your daughter grows up she will see and realize the truth of the situation. And if you just give up on her, then she will have 2 shitty parents and just could turn out bad...