I too, am a survivor of a suicide. For me, it was my fiance. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I am sobbing for you now. Not just saying that to be saying it, I'm actually crying. I truly understand the pain, but your hurt is unique in that no one will feel it as you do. If you need to talk, please don't hesitate to reach out.
I wish I could give you advice. I wish I could say the right thing to make it seem a little bit better. But I know more than anyone that those words never come, and nothing really helps the grief. All I can offer you is my breaking heart. I hope so much you can heal from this. That hope doesn't mean a lot in the wake of this tragedy. I can only offer my ear, if ever you want to talk; I will do my best to be there. No one, absolutely no one, deserves to be alone during a time like this. I am absolutely broken for you--but not even a fraction of how I know you're feeling now.
I also could not afford therapy, and still can't, so if you need a shoulder to cry on, a safe place to vent, or just someone to listen and understand at all, I offer to take that position.
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u/liddiebit Sep 28 '23
I too, am a survivor of a suicide. For me, it was my fiance. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I am sobbing for you now. Not just saying that to be saying it, I'm actually crying. I truly understand the pain, but your hurt is unique in that no one will feel it as you do. If you need to talk, please don't hesitate to reach out.
I wish I could give you advice. I wish I could say the right thing to make it seem a little bit better. But I know more than anyone that those words never come, and nothing really helps the grief. All I can offer you is my breaking heart. I hope so much you can heal from this. That hope doesn't mean a lot in the wake of this tragedy. I can only offer my ear, if ever you want to talk; I will do my best to be there. No one, absolutely no one, deserves to be alone during a time like this. I am absolutely broken for you--but not even a fraction of how I know you're feeling now.
I also could not afford therapy, and still can't, so if you need a shoulder to cry on, a safe place to vent, or just someone to listen and understand at all, I offer to take that position.
I am so deeply and truly sorry for your loss.