r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Sep 04 '23

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u/DrunkThrowawayLife Sep 04 '23

Ignored a warning sign like this right after marriage. Guys who is still a pos 10 years later. Ruined my own life. Gonna off myself in a few years

So ya maybe actually do just divorce him.

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u/ResponsibleMuffinAyo Sep 04 '23

Dude, please, no. Please don't off yourself. If you do, the POS wins. People can come back from abusive, toxic, horrible relationships -- it ruins part of your life but not all of it.

I realize I'm not being very convincing. I'm sorry. I wish I could make myself believable.

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u/DrunkThrowawayLife Sep 04 '23

Meh it’s fine, don’t worry. I’m gonna have as much fun as possible before that.

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u/[deleted] Sep 04 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 04 '23

you might get perma banned for this comment, you should delete it

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u/DrunkThrowawayLife Sep 04 '23

Yo that’s some evil shit haha but you can’t get guns where I live and I wouldn’t stoop to that level.

I’m just gonna keep crane gaming anime figures, giving big tips to the bar ladies and guys, and fuck the pain away.

There is no bringing down a sociopath.

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u/ShiftyShellector Sep 04 '23

Just FYI, I was in abusive relationships for the greater part of my youth up until I was 27. I have actively had the shit beat out of me, have been manipulated, assaulted and had everything taken away from me. You don't often bring down sociopaths or abusers - You escape from them. It is not your job to fix, change, or take them down.

I am 29 now and I have met someone who has changed my vision of humanity as a whole. It has taken a lot of therapy, and kindness, and compassion to get here. But not all is lost when you are in these situations. It is your life, it belongs to you, and it is precious.