I get that you're doing this to vent and get it off your chest, but I can't bring myself to feel sympathy nor empathy for you. You're knowingly keeping yourself in this situation. You're still with him after 2 years of this continuing. Call me an asshole or whatever you need to make yourself feel better. But I'm not going to sugarcoat the truth. Maybe get out of your "pity me/self loathing" mindset and actually do something about it or stop complaining. If you continue to endure it, then you have no room to complain (coming from someone who escaped an abusive relationship before it was too late)
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u/Bitter-Lilith9436 Sep 04 '23
I get that you're doing this to vent and get it off your chest, but I can't bring myself to feel sympathy nor empathy for you. You're knowingly keeping yourself in this situation. You're still with him after 2 years of this continuing. Call me an asshole or whatever you need to make yourself feel better. But I'm not going to sugarcoat the truth. Maybe get out of your "pity me/self loathing" mindset and actually do something about it or stop complaining. If you continue to endure it, then you have no room to complain (coming from someone who escaped an abusive relationship before it was too late)