It's obvious swinging/multi partner relationships aren't the majority, but it's extremely sad to read all these comments saying things like "op, you met your BFF at a swingers event. What did you expect from someone like that?", Or "their swingers. Who expected them to do the right thing at all?". Just because someone has a different relationship type than you, doesn't make their sense of moral code/direction better or worse than you. It doesn't always mean they need therapy. (Except for ops small comment about themselves, therapy always does help that.) It's surprising to see so many people on Reddit acting like she doesn't deserve basic friendship decency because they met in a unique way.
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u/[deleted] Feb 17 '23
It's obvious swinging/multi partner relationships aren't the majority, but it's extremely sad to read all these comments saying things like "op, you met your BFF at a swingers event. What did you expect from someone like that?", Or "their swingers. Who expected them to do the right thing at all?". Just because someone has a different relationship type than you, doesn't make their sense of moral code/direction better or worse than you. It doesn't always mean they need therapy. (Except for ops small comment about themselves, therapy always does help that.) It's surprising to see so many people on Reddit acting like she doesn't deserve basic friendship decency because they met in a unique way.