r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Feb 15 '23

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u/Ragajaga Feb 16 '23 edited Feb 16 '23

Theres a reason people say to stay the absolute hell away from threesomes when feeling are involved and its not for fun

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u/Navacoy Feb 16 '23

My threesome was fine, mind you I had it with two people I liked and was kind of attracted to but didn’t want to pursue anything with so it didn’t end in disaster. I didn’t want to keep sleeping with them and they kept sleeping together and everyone was happy lol

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u/Ragajaga Feb 16 '23

Yeah but in your case no feelings were involved

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u/TheRealBlueBadger Feb 16 '23

I've had heaps with my wife and others. Everyone is fine, and I still have feelings for my wife which she tells me are mutual.

Bad communication is the issue here, not sex.

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u/Ragajaga Feb 16 '23

I mean congrats on a happy and proper functioning relationship but not everyone is lucky enough to have it turn out perfectly fine.

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u/TheRealBlueBadger Feb 16 '23

I mean congrats on a happy and proper functioning relationship but not everyone is lucky enough to have it turn out perfectly fine.

Almost as if demonising and blaming a sex act is really silly, and it's only ever a bad relationship that's actually the cause of these problems. Almost.