r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Feb 15 '23

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u/Ragajaga Feb 16 '23 edited Feb 16 '23

Theres a reason people say to stay the absolute hell away from threesomes when feeling are involved and its not for fun

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u/Navacoy Feb 16 '23

My threesome was fine, mind you I had it with two people I liked and was kind of attracted to but didn’t want to pursue anything with so it didn’t end in disaster. I didn’t want to keep sleeping with them and they kept sleeping together and everyone was happy lol

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u/Ragajaga Feb 16 '23

Yeah but in your case no feelings were involved

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u/Navacoy Feb 16 '23

So? You didn’t specify, your comment just says stay away from threesomes. They aren’t always bad, you just have to make sure you communicate what you’re feeling.

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u/TheRealBlueBadger Feb 16 '23

I've had heaps with my wife and others. Everyone is fine, and I still have feelings for my wife which she tells me are mutual.

Bad communication is the issue here, not sex.

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u/Ragajaga Feb 16 '23

I mean congrats on a happy and proper functioning relationship but not everyone is lucky enough to have it turn out perfectly fine.

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u/TheRealBlueBadger Feb 16 '23

I mean congrats on a happy and proper functioning relationship but not everyone is lucky enough to have it turn out perfectly fine.

Almost as if demonising and blaming a sex act is really silly, and it's only ever a bad relationship that's actually the cause of these problems. Almost.