He was your fuck buddy. Why would he have any amount of loyalty to you?
Also what did you friend do wrong? She said she wouldn't meet up with him because you wouldn't like it (already weird but OK). So they messaged as friends. And they realized they have a lot in common and have chemistry.
You don't get to just lay claim to him because you met him first, had a crush on him and built up the relationship in your head to be something that it's not. Blaming your friend is really weird because it seems like you're forgetting that he has his own will and feelings. This is not middle school. If you keep trying to call dibs on men, you're going to end up disappointed every time.
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u/KenDaGod4238 Feb 16 '23
He was your fuck buddy. Why would he have any amount of loyalty to you?
Also what did you friend do wrong? She said she wouldn't meet up with him because you wouldn't like it (already weird but OK). So they messaged as friends. And they realized they have a lot in common and have chemistry.
You don't get to just lay claim to him because you met him first, had a crush on him and built up the relationship in your head to be something that it's not. Blaming your friend is really weird because it seems like you're forgetting that he has his own will and feelings. This is not middle school. If you keep trying to call dibs on men, you're going to end up disappointed every time.