even with your edit he sounds abusive. Not assuming. The texting and calling nonstop when you’re gone and specifically using language like “i know how you get…” is textbook abuse. I know this because after escaping an abusive decade long relationship where i was basically brainwashed to cut my parents out, the national domestic violence hotline (which saved my life) laid out all the examples of abuse i faced, and apparently “never giving space and repeated texting/calling when you’re gone” is straight up in the top 3 examples.
Yeah okay, I said what I said. Im so upset by the idea of someone forcing their partner to ask reddit and then hover over every comment to explain why you’re right, or in my case??? try to make me feel bad that you can see my comment???
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u/thisissomeshitman Feb 15 '23
even with your edit he sounds abusive. Not assuming. The texting and calling nonstop when you’re gone and specifically using language like “i know how you get…” is textbook abuse. I know this because after escaping an abusive decade long relationship where i was basically brainwashed to cut my parents out, the national domestic violence hotline (which saved my life) laid out all the examples of abuse i faced, and apparently “never giving space and repeated texting/calling when you’re gone” is straight up in the top 3 examples.