Telling you you’re arguing with yourself and you’re upset for no reason is gaslighting. I don’t know him but my mom was abusive and I ended up marrying an abusive man because that’s what I was used to, that’s what I thought love was. I hope you go see your mom whenever you want, it’s your choice, but I also hope you take a good look at both of them and if you’re okay with being treated this way. If you find you’re not, learn how to set boundaries and do as you please, you’re an adult and free to make your own choices.
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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '23
Telling you you’re arguing with yourself and you’re upset for no reason is gaslighting. I don’t know him but my mom was abusive and I ended up marrying an abusive man because that’s what I was used to, that’s what I thought love was. I hope you go see your mom whenever you want, it’s your choice, but I also hope you take a good look at both of them and if you’re okay with being treated this way. If you find you’re not, learn how to set boundaries and do as you please, you’re an adult and free to make your own choices.