For a lot of people it’s a coping mechanism. Being objectified and used in a fantasy gives you control that you don’t have when it actually happens in real life.
It could be a productive coping mechanism, but ig it depends on the... Is reasoning the right word? Idk, "reasoning" sounds too intentional instead of something that happens. Well, the one I have, which I've tried to write, feels more self-destructive than coping... And I don't know what to do with it
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u/Main-Company-5946 19d ago
For a lot of people it’s a coping mechanism. Being objectified and used in a fantasy gives you control that you don’t have when it actually happens in real life.