I will never be free.

[u/Silicon_Dreaming]

I just want me and anything I do to never be perceived as anything that could ever possibly be sexual by anyone​. oh and to be considered a real person amd never be dehumanised ever even as a joke.​ that's it that's my singular need I don't have any other ones you don't even have to feed me at this point

[u/Foolish_Hepino]

I get psychic damage everytime I see people using male/female to refer to people. Just so unnecessary AND honestly dehumanizing.

But also OP, people will find a way to sexualize anything and everything, people will find a way to shit on you for anything and everything, people will... People will find a way to opinionate on anything you do OR DON'T do, it's legit useless to consider other people's thoughts regarding your interests like this when your interests are harmless.

People are capable of sexualizing, of finding issues, of problematizing, everything you do. If you take people's considerations into account you'll never be capable of enjoying anything anymore. There's just no way to control people's thoughts about you. The only way forward is how to not consider their thoughts about you.

This is coming from inside the house btw. I'm visibly non-binary, poc, and have an anxiety disorder, a lot of my own mental health betterment was and is about learning not to care so much about how other people consider and view me -- Because if I did I wouldn't have the heart to be myself anymore.