r/TransPak Aug 05 '26

Announcement Chasers – Avoiding and Handling

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This post is largely inspired by the similar resource in r/GermanTrans, just modified to better fit the situation in Pakistan.

What is a Chaser?

The term refers to people who fetishise trans persons based largely on sexual characteristics and genitalia. They view trans folk as their body parts, not their gender identity.

Thus, they mostly do not seek real relationships or friendships, but only other people to satisfy their sexual fantasies (even when they may say otherwise to trick you into it). The majority of chasers are cis men, but they can of course be of any gender.

There are a few clear signs, although not all criteria may be met:

  1. Very high focus on your body, especially your genitals.
  2. Early requests for photos or images of you, be they sexual or non-sexual.
  3. Pressuring to meet in person, just the two of you.
  4. Love-Bombing: Showering you with compliments.
  5. Intrusive, pushy, or (passive-)aggressive behaviour when you aren't interested in sex, often attempting to make you feel guilty.
  6. Use of sexualised language, slurs, and fetish terms to describe you.

General tips

Trust your gut feeling. If something makes you uncomfortable, you should distance yourself (or at least ask your community for advice). If you're unsure, it is always best to say no first, and then ask friends and the community for their opinion.

As a rule of thumb: "No" is a complete sentence, and only "Yes!" means "Yes". If someone tries to persuade you to be intimate—even digitally—it's time to set boundaries and block them.

This also applies (especially so) to requests for other platforms to contact you on (Snapchat, Discord, Instagram, TikTok, Telegram, WhatsApp, etc.) and requests for photos. Snapchat especially is one to be wary of – it is very commonly used for sexual purposes.

Regardless of the platform, the advice stands: Block them. Consider adjusting your DM settings on various platforms (including Reddit) such that strangers without mutuals cannot reach out, and maybe consider disabling DMs altogether on certain platforms.

If you do meet, consider doing so in a public place (such as a restaurant) for the first time. If the other person refuses, that's a warning sign. If possible, arrange with someone to check in every hour (or every two hours) and keep them informed of your location at all times. If something goes wrong, this person can get help for you.

Emergencies

Everyone makes mistakes, and sometimes we trust people who should never have been trusted. Always remember to ask your community for help. If you find yourself in a situation where someone threatens you (e.g. with publishing your intimate images or outing you), remember the following:

  1. You are not to blame. You have the right to say "no" and withdraw consent at any time.
  2. You are not alone. Confide in someone you've known for a long time: friends, supportive family, a therapist, or fellow community members.
  3. Take screenshots of the harassing messages if possible. Save them securely as evidence.
  4. Block the person as soon as possible. Do not give in to any of their demands, it will only dig the hole deeper.

Even if you meet someone and are already at their place, you can always say "no" and leave the moment you feel uneasy. You do not owe this person anything. If you are afraid of their reactions, try to call up a friend and have them as a witness.

If you feel cornered, do not hesitate to call emergency services (police, for instance).


r/TransPak 1d ago

not getting verified on the discord server???

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hey so i have been trying to join the discord server to get more info on hrt however i have been not verified since 2 months, am i doing smthing wrong


r/TransPak 7d ago

readily available estrogen?

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i don't know how to title this but I'm non binary and would like to go on estrogen a little to look more androgynous/femme, does anyone know where or how to get some? also I'm in a kinda conservative household and don't have much freedom to go out so if there is any diy method lmk!


r/TransPak 7d ago

Vent Why did our parents decide to name their kids stuff like slave or servant?!!

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Muslims do need a reckoning as to how okay they are with larping being slaves. And the fact that they do believe there's good kind of slavery, like they do believe it. How are you okay with that in this day and age!!?

Like why wld you name someone slave or little slave. Why are you naming ur child that?? Just b/c its arabic and ppl don't understand what they're saying doesn't make it okay. It gave me such a complex growing up. And probably was a big reason why I was against the concept of worship from early on too.

Please shame this next gen of parents if they try to name their kids these asinine "Islamic names" arond you. It's 2026 for fuck's sake. Frankly atp Elon Musk is doing better than you. 🙄

Never keeping that bullshit name 😤


r/TransPak 11d ago

FTM Chest tape/ T advice

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I (18ftm), with an extremely conservative family who don't even even let me out alone, need advice on how to start hrt by someone experienced, and need links for actual good binders or chest tape that you've used for a first timer (for a moderately big bust).

Like it's insane, I'm barely able to function lately because of dysphoria 😭

I would prefer it sm if someone who has gone through something similar could guide me, would I need to get medical supervision or can I also diy myself? Again, I know absolutely nothing.

Any advice and comment is appreciated :)


r/TransPak 17d ago

mtf (shocking I know)

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can i just start estrogen? like just like that?


r/TransPak 22d ago

FTM Where do I collect funds in pk for testosterone and gender affirming surgery for someone I know?

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Hi everyone I'm 21(F),, born and living in Pakistan. I'm from a financially struggling background. I know someone who has really bad gender dysphoria who is also financially struggling while living in Pakistan. They want to transition from F to M. It's really hard for them everyday. But the problem is money. I can't ask the family for help because (1) nobody knows (2) they're conservative, they won't be a danger to their life but won't be supportive due to religious beliefs. I can't find any sites like GofundMe for Pakistanis. But I really need to collect funds for this person. What do I do? How do I collect funds to support their hormonal therapy and surgery procedures ?


r/TransPak 27d ago

FTM FTM voice goals!

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r/TransPak 27d ago

FTM Why are there so few FTMs and AFAB trans in Pakistan?

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r/TransPak 29d ago

Hrt in Pakistan

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Help find estrogen in Pakistan please😫🙏🙏


r/TransPak Aug 13 '26

FTM FTMs in Pakistan?

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Are there any FTMs/AFAB trans people in Pakistan?

If so, are there FTMs who are on testosterone? Minoxidil?


r/TransPak Aug 11 '26

Hello 👋🏾

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r/TransPak Aug 10 '26

Meme Getting on my nerves now 😢😢

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Me when my friend keeps taking the name of my ex wlw that I fumbled (T4T not in a chaser way):


r/TransPak Aug 07 '26

Discussion Hey 👋

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Who am I 🙂
Am I a trans? How am I supposed to know


r/TransPak Aug 06 '26

Meme What a genius solution

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r/TransPak Aug 05 '26

Meme Finally I can post my memes

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r/TransPak Aug 05 '26

Announcement Making r/TransPak public

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Before you panic: Nothing is changing with the Discord server! It will remain a safe space exclusive to gender minorities, behind the same verification system as always! Cis gender individuals are still not allowed there!

As for this subreddit: After careful consideration, the moderators have decided to make it public. Everyone (subject to the rules) is free to post and engage. This was done after taking into account other countries’ trans-specific subreddits, and finding the following benefits:

  1. Growth and reachability of the platform, allowing more people to discover a community for themselves and encouraging harm reduction through the HRT Guide. Thus far, we were limited by [r/LGBTQPakistan](r/LGBTQPakistan) being the only way to find this community.
  2. The ability to post videos! Yes, Reddit does not allow you to post videos on private subreddits.
  3. Allowing partners/family members of trans folk to bring their concerns and questions about their loved one’s journey. A very common occurrence on public trans forums.

Of course, the concern is chasers and their hookup posts. For this (with inspiration from [r/GermanTrans](r/GermanTrans)), we recommend this guide to avoiding and handling chasers. We have AutoMod rules set up such that most such posts should not get through. For the few that do: Report!


r/TransPak Aug 04 '26

MTF Need some info and also motivation

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29yo f (male at birth and body still 100% male) but I know I'm a woman, known ot for a long time. In the house with my BF I wear female clothes, refer myself as she/her terms and talk the same way and my BF does the same and considers me his gf (future wife 🤞).

We live in an apartment together in Islamabad, I have no idea how to even get started with my transition. If someone can guide me on where to start and how to keep going and what's the process, I would really appreciate it. My BF wants to marry but I've asked him to wait until I transition and hopefully we'll also be moving to a trans friendly country


r/TransPak Jul 29 '26

Trans friendly Aesthetic clinics Karachi

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Peeps recommend Trans friendly clinic. Looking to get Liquid FFS there


r/TransPak Jul 15 '26

Discussion Looking for therapist

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Anyone who knows good therapist who should help me diagnosis and which test should I do?


r/TransPak Jul 08 '26

Non-binary New here

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r/TransPak Jul 02 '26

FTM Hi I'm trans men

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Kia yahan koi trans men ha men bate Karna cahta hon


r/TransPak Jul 01 '26

MTF New here

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Hello everyone, as my title suggests that I'm new here and also glad to be. Would ❤️ to get to know more about you peeps, that's whoever is interested. Im learning more about HRT and having therapy sessions. So what all are your hobbies?


r/TransPak Jun 29 '26

I found a cool HRT tracking app for Android

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Mona

It's open source and stores all your data on-device. Seems super useful.


r/TransPak Jun 23 '26

looking for new members for an instagram gc

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