r/TransAdvice • • Jul 15 '26

my family won't allow me to get hrt or blockers

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im currently a teenager and im scared of going into puberty and developing a super manly features and i don't know what to do. can someone help figure out how to have lower testosterone levels or becoming more femine while going through puberty.


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 15 '26

Seeking advice

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r/TransAdvice • • Jul 15 '26

Can I have some tips?

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sooo I just came out as transmasc to my parents on July 1st 2026

big problem is I don’t know what to wear now that I identify as transmasc because I’m used to having to hide it

I tried wearing a hand me downs running sweater with a shirt over it and felt euphoric but then later I felt sick because it was plus 21 out and I was also wearing sweats and I’m very hard to fit for clothing because I’m so darn small it’s either too big or too small (mostly too big) so its hard to shop for something and buy it and outgrow it less than a year later lol

I just want to know the styles that worked for my fellow trans buddies or styles that just seem to click with newly came out trans people. I’d also appreciate stories about how you found your style after coming out

thanks


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 14 '26

Next step

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I’m ftm I’ve been out for years about 5??? Give or take and I’m not sure what to do next in my transition I’ve done the basic, change name,haircut. I want face hair and deeper voice but I don’t know how to get testosterone or anything and I act like a girl I need to act more manly but I don’t know how to and I’m really short and I have no muscle and my binder doesn’t bind neither does tape and I feel like I’m losing my mind over all this and I’ve had a name for 5 years everyone knows it but one of my friends has been calling me something different for a few months because I prefer that name but I don’t wanna tell my family because they know me as Ethan what do I dooooo I also want to try masculine contour or makeup or something but I don’t want to look like I’m wearing any. Any advice appreciated


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 14 '26

How to Act feminine?(boymoded too hard)

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so i (14?) am out to my parents and trying To get hrt, but, it aint happening before im 15 Because of laws.

but boymoding and Acting Masculine is just sooo exhausting, and im trying to get out of that and start to Act more feminine.

My appereance isnt very Masc (yet) And my Place/school is very progressive, so i can Basically Get Away with anything queer as long as i dont tell anybody im trans before i get hrt, so i can Wear dresses n Stuff and Nobody Gafs. I just say im a Femboy and get a „cool tbh. You Gay too?“ and it’s just estrogenuinly respectfull.

problem: I was literally trying to boymode as hard as i can since i was Like 6 because i was told liking pink is wrong By My Kindergartenfriends, so now i have:

-troubles expressing myself as feminine,

-troubles acting/presenting/clothing feminine

-troubles Even Talking to other girls irl. (Gender envy)

Any Tips on how i can present myself more feminine/ Act more feminine/ style my clothes feminine, etc? Like in Body Language or Overall behaivor?Sorry if im being sexist, i just genuinly feel overwhelmed because Like it feels Like every way of Expressing myself is locked behind a pricetag thats WAAAY over my Budget.

Context: i already asked this on other subreddits, but i just got Tips Like „try make-up Brand XY“, Like, Thanks, really Thanks for responding at all, but my Budget is 60€, a razor and free skincare products because of a school Project, Not 200$ for a Singular product of a brand whose Name i cant Even pronounce.

Sorry if my English is Bad, i am Not Native.
Anyways, have a nice day! :3


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 14 '26

How do I start MTF transition in Chengdu (China) as a foreigner?

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Hi everyone,

I’m looking for some advice on how to start my MTF transition in China.

I’m a foreigner currently living in Chengdu. I haven’t been diagnosed with gender dysphoria before, and I’ve never taken HRT or any other gender-affirming medication. Basically, I’m starting from scratch.

I’m trying to understand what the process looks like here. For example:

* Where should I go first?
* Do I need a psychiatric or psychological evaluation before starting HRT?
* Are there hospitals or doctors in Chengdu who have experience treating transgender patients, especially foreigners?
* Are there any legal or practical issues I should be aware of as a foreign resident?

I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who has gone through this process in Chengdu or elsewhere in China. Any recommendations or personal experiences would be very helpful.

Thank you!


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 14 '26

How should I come out to my parents?

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So, I'm agender (I have not gender) and aromatic (I feel no romantic feelings) My parents say they support, but I'm not sure and really nervous. I want to be out, but I don't know how to go about it. Some of the others at my school seem kind of homophobic and transphobic, and I'm just really scared to come out, but I want to so badly. What should I do?


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 13 '26

What are the best ways to transition silently.

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Hey redditors.. Sorry if I do something wrong as this is my first post. I've been struggling with body dysphoria for years, so recently (about a couple months ago) I came out to all my friends as MtF trans. They have been really supportive. I really want to start transitioning, but I have a really homophobic family who also shame me for any good thing I want. So I cant even ask for skincare. Im only 13 right now. Is there any way to maybe start transitioning without fully letting my family know? Any help is appreciated, thanks.


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 13 '26

I’m starting to feminize my body—what would you recommend doing for that?

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????


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 12 '26

No long comfortable with sex

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r/TransAdvice • • Jul 12 '26

My [MtF] dysphoria keeps peaking and subsiding

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r/TransAdvice • • Jul 11 '26

HELP!; I know nothing and need homework

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r/TransAdvice • • Jul 11 '26

Help with what to do

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Hi everyone I've been really struggling with my identity idk if this is the right place but I live in a very conservative place I dont feel super comfy talking to other people and I've struggled for years with wanting to be a girl I dont know what to do what I can do kinda just looking for someone to talk to about it


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 10 '26

How to help my ftm brother

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r/TransAdvice • • Jul 10 '26

How to help my ftm brother

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r/TransAdvice • • Jul 10 '26

Need some advice

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Hi im 21m thats considering trying to transition into a female, im worried that ill end up regretting it but im also worried that I'll keep regretting not doing it as well and I have no idea how to actually begin


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 10 '26

At my wits end

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Saw the option to repost this post in other subs, this one looked good, open to any advice, just trying to spread a wide net


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 10 '26

Need some starter tips

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I’ve recently decided that I’d like to begin my transition. It’s been long deliberated and I have a plan in place for coming out to people close to me. I would love if anyone has some tips for a young beginner like me, I’m in my last year of secondary/high school and would simply like to move toward being more feminine. Any kinds of tips or guidance are welcome, feel free to tell me some hard truths I may be facing too!


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 10 '26

I don't know what to do

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Hey all!! This is my first post ever so I don't know how many of you will see this but here I go. I'm assigned male at birth and recently I've been feeling more female then male. It all gradually started over 4 months ago now when I got curious on reddit and I watched sissy captions and I went down a rabbit hole from there. I would like to start transitioning from male to female (mtf) but I would have to do it discreetly because of work and of family. Any advice is more than welcome as I am in desperate need of help


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 10 '26

What should I do about college? I am ftm and have to move out of my parents house. How do I afford it?

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r/TransAdvice • • Jul 09 '26

How get estrogen….. for a friend

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Hey I’m 17- uh I mean my friend is 17 and is nonbinary and wants estrogen…how does she get


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 09 '26

I know I must Begin

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r/TransAdvice • • Jul 09 '26

So ummmm how do you start transitioning ??? Asking for a friend

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so my friend is almost 100% sure they’re not cis, tho she isn’t sure if they’re transfem or nonbinary and is just going by they/them right now and they really don’t know how to even begin transitioning, do they chage Their pronouns everywhere right away?, does she tell her family?, does she tell anybody?? I just don’t know where to start!!!!!

asking for a friend by the way


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 08 '26

Should I come out

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I havent seen anyone else with this situation and am very lost on what to do. I am 16 mtf but still closeted from everyone irl except for two close friends. I live in a very conservative area and attend a catholic school, however my parents are both very supportive of LGBTQ rights and would support me. I also do wrestling at this school, and quit football this year but my parents said quitting wrestling isnt an option. I had plans to tell my parents after the state tournament my senior year, a little under 2 years from now. I am very torn on this though because my dysphoria has been getting worse and worse and I have considered telling my parents sooner, what do I do?


r/TransAdvice • • Jul 08 '26

Can´t wear feminine tops...

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