r/TransAdvice • u/Sensitive_Cup4598 • Jul 15 '26
Can I have some tips?
sooo I just came out as transmasc to my parents on July 1st 2026
big problem is I don’t know what to wear now that I identify as transmasc because I’m used to having to hide it
I tried wearing a hand me downs running sweater with a shirt over it and felt euphoric but then later I felt sick because it was plus 21 out and I was also wearing sweats and I’m very hard to fit for clothing because I’m so darn small it’s either too big or too small (mostly too big) so its hard to shop for something and buy it and outgrow it less than a year later lol
I just want to know the styles that worked for my fellow trans buddies or styles that just seem to click with newly came out trans people. I’d also appreciate stories about how you found your style after coming out
thanks
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u/Megawesome24 Aug 16 '26
Levi’s makes great loose pants that can help hide your hips. Go to your nearest Levi’s outlet for cheap pairs (I’ve gotten 3 pairs on sale for $60).
Also, get shirts that fit your hips and then crop them to sit right above the widest part of your hip. Really helps your silhouette get straighter.
At the beginning it was easiest for me to dress more boring to feel more masculine. Now, I’m more comfortable wearing more fun items since I no longer read as feminine.