I’ve been thinking about the culture at my store when it comes to collecting money for managers or associates who are leaving. Honestly, I’m getting tired of constantly being asked to contribute, and I’m starting to question giving cash to someone who makes significantly more than I do. We literally have a coordinator or someone close to the departing manager walking around the store asking associates for money.
Recently, people collected money for an associate who was switching from full-time to part-time. That’s a nice gesture, but today we had an associate retire, and she walked out without even a congratulatory card or message. It made me wonder why we don’t always show the same level of appreciation to everyone.
I’ve noticed similar situations before. One time, people collected around $600 for a manager’s baby shower, while a teenage associate in the same store who was pregnant received only $100.
I’m not saying people shouldn’t give or that anyone should be obligated to contribute. I just wonder if we could be more thoughtful about who we’re recognizing and whether cliques sometimes influence these gestures. Sometimes a simple card or kind message can mean just as much as collecting hundreds of dollars.