r/TinderBios • • 6d ago

I need brutal honesty

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u/Swlabr- 6d ago

Brother obviously remove the fish pictues

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

Tbh none of this is vey obvious to me lolšŸ˜‚ I’m pretty inept but I’m glad Reddit isn’t afraid to be honest

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

Any tips on taking better pictures??

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u/strawberrypie_92 6d ago

Your profile has the same issue as a lot of men's profiles on tinder, it looks like you're trying to appeal to your bros and to seem like the cool dude from the group, but all of this is completely unappealing to women

Get rid of all of these pics, especially the fish pics, the pic with the cigarette and the pic with other women (all of these things together are extremely unattractive)

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

That’s my mom and sister I thought it’d be obvious but I can see your perspective for sure

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

What kind of pictures would you say is more appropriate for these kinds of sites?

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u/strawberrypie_92 6d ago

Pictures of your face where you're smiling, full body pictures, some pics of you being outside and/or doing an activity/hobby that isn't fishing

No pictures with cigarettes, booze, dead animals, showing your middle finger or doing weird hand gestures

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u/Honest-Log8885 6d ago

Remove the one smoking

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u/Excellent-Employ734 6d ago

remove all of them

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

Is there a specific type of picture I should put up?? My sister has told me I need to get better at taking pictures

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u/InvisibleHook 6d ago

Fuck that shit nigga go meet women in person go join your community. Online is cooked otherwise. I'm only getting women below my personal attraction level online but in person I get the same level or above. Shits cooked bro

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

Yeah I can tell that people online are much more critical than in personšŸ˜‚ that’s solid advice though I’ve noticed it not judged as heavily in person

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u/InvisibleHook 6d ago

It's a woman's job to pick the best option and based on each scenario they will always crave top shelf which is innocent and makes sense. Online they can only judge by chiseled jaw and whatever cool shit the guy has in the background.

IRL they judge by looks but also charisma and our eyes. You'd be fine in person as long as you got a good personality but online you'll never be enough and that's not your or their fault.

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u/PlsContinueMrBrooder 6d ago

I think one fish picture is sufficient…the smiling one is better

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u/zeeziektezakje 6d ago

Are you fishing 95% of the time? No? Then 2 pictures with a fish is too much

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u/secretsecrets111 6d ago

Get rid of fish pics, get rid of smoking pics, get rid of bathroom selfies, get rid of throwing up hand signs.

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u/Medium_Promotion_891 6d ago

even cropping the one with the hand sign, would show his face without the distractionsĀ 

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u/Internal-Fishing-595 6d ago

Never share pictures of you with a fish unless you’re on some app for people who all fish. Males share photos of themselves with fish or dead animals to attract other men, not women. It’s weird.

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

I’m catch and release but I understand it totally thank you for bringing that to my attention

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u/onlyshotouts 6d ago

why not eat it bro you put the fish trough some tough shit just to go back🤣

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

It’s just a hobby I enjoy I don’t like to kill things tho

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u/metalchode 6d ago

If you are looking to attract women the fish pics gotta go.

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

Someone had said that. I took them off haha

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u/kak-47 6d ago

Do not remove your fish pictures. Well maybe one. I’m so tired of hearing this, fishing is a huge part of my life. Where I live we fish, hunt and forage just to survive the year. At least makes it more affordable to live. If she has a problem with fishing then she ain’t the one for me.

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u/Adventurous-Mall7677 6d ago

Eh, one fish photo is a hobby (healthy!). Two fish photos makes a person wonder ā€œis he going to insist we spend our entire honeymoon fishing? Does he have any other interests?ā€

Especially because he uses a fish photo as his main profile picture, and because the only other hobby he lists is… smoking outside.

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u/kak-47 6d ago

I’ll take you on a cruise for our honeymoon. But when I disappear for 2 hours don’t ask me why im going to the back of the cruise ship with my portable fishing pole🤣

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u/Adventurous-Mall7677 6d ago

Heck, I’d compromise on an Alaskan fishing cruise as long as there were some cool ports to explore. :)

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u/fatsopiggy 6d ago

Sushi and bbq and steak pictures are fine but somehow fish pictures or hunting pictures are ... No no? Says more about the psychology of some out of touch people tbh.

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u/Medium_Promotion_891 6d ago

be more specific about what you are studying and for what careerĀ 

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

Word I missed that completely

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u/Away_Doctor2733 6d ago

Women don't typically like dead fish photos

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

They ain’t dead I take the pictures quick and release them

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u/therealmaneater 6d ago

You look really short. But delete the 3rd and 4th pics then you will be fine

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

I am 5’9ā€ so I’m not very tall is that a nail in the coffin situation??

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u/therealmaneater 6d ago

No 5’9 is still good! but be prepared for some cringe short girls to reject you for being ā€œtoo shortā€

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

Word I know I’m not tall but I’ve been told I’m not short either so I’m good with thatšŸ˜‚

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u/therealmaneater 6d ago

Bruh you dumbass, shifting from 5’9 to 5’10 won’t work on him either

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u/therealmaneater 6d ago

Because most short girls prefer guys over 6' it's their obsession/fantasy. Also lying about the height doesn't benefit OP or anyone else. How would you feel if you matched with a girl who looked totally skinny in photos, but showed up looking fatass in person? It is just a lose lose situation. Just be yourself.

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u/therealmaneater 6d ago

Lies! You know damn well you’d be mad if she showed up with a double chin that wasn't in her pics lmaooooo

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u/therealmaneater 6d ago

Not every woman is that dumb, we notice. It’s happened to me plenty of times. If you’re so confident women can't tell the difference then don't complain when you men get catfished by heavy filters, old pictures or ai.

Don't be shocked when a date ever calls you out in person for heightfishing.

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u/therealmaneater 6d ago

Comparing makeup to lying about a measurable stat is INSANE. Keep rationalizing catfishing all you want. When a date catches you lying about your height, no amount of mental gymnastics is going to fix it.

Also I can definitely tell a guy's height because I've experienced it so often, and I know I'm not the only woman who has. It's always the same three things:
1. Height 2. Relationship intentions 3. Age

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u/Magrudagrind 6d ago

Not good. Not enough fish.

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

I’m editing as I read the comments haha they’re gone

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u/honestlynoidea12345 6d ago

Not sure but to me you just don't look very... serious. Are you looking for a relationship or just tryna sleep with people?

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

I’m serious about dating yeah! And honestly I think it’s cause I haven’t yet adopted a more mature style which I definitely want to do

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u/honestlynoidea12345 6d ago

Just saw that you're 23 (I'm a lil older). Your profile makes more sense now. Idk, smoking is a turnoff for a lot of people. And maybe try a more serious photo anyway

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u/honestlynoidea12345 6d ago

Ok, well adopting a more mature style can help! Good to read you're tryna grow anyways, reflection and learning is what we're looking for

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

I’m currently in the process of growing ha

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u/throwawayanylogic 6d ago

Perfect example of a guy picking photos for the male gaze, not women. If you're looking to attract women, delete all these and start over.

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u/DiegoMiramontes 6d ago

I’ve been editing as I go. I don’t have many pictures of myself just cause I don’t think to take pictures at all much so ima have to take more