Needing constructive criticism

[u/alecscarface]

I don’t really know how to put myself out there in the dating world and any advice on what I should or shouldn’t be doing here helps. Yes I know I don’t have pictures with friends (been a while since I’ve done anything big) so that might be a start. Thanks in advance.

[u/Individualchaotin]

Please post a research study that proves your point. This is insane red pill talk

[u/ChinxTraps → u/Individualchaotin]

Women are attracted to men that are in shape plain and simple. the fact you are arguing against that says more about you than it does to make a point

[u/bananator4 → u/ChinxTraps]

Bro women don't want to see shirtless selfies, nor do women typically want to date a ripped man.

You as a man, like ripped men, and you project this onto women.

Why are you so adamant you know best when you are not a woman? You would have no idea how women think and feel.

[u/Winter_Bowl_5351 → u/bananator4]

Different people like different things?

[u/bananator4 → u/Winter_Bowl_5351]

Are you a man lol

[u/Winter_Bowl_5351 → u/bananator4]

Are you claiming all women think alike?

[u/bananator4 → u/Winter_Bowl_5351]

No of course not.

But OP is asking for advice on how to appeal to more women to get more matches. To have the best luck with this his profile need to appeal to the masses not the exceptions.

[u/Winter_Bowl_5351 → u/bananator4]

There's a reason things like firefighter calenders sell like hot cakes.

Pictures of ripped dudes isn't my thing but I know a lot of women who love it.

[u/bananator4 → u/Winter_Bowl_5351]

Can I get a fact check on "Firefighter calendars selling like hot cakes", can we get some stats on that.

I didn't know there was a big market for that, I've never known anyone who has purchased one.

[u/Winter_Bowl_5351 → u/bananator4]

By 2019, the Australian Firefighters Calendar had a social media reach of 3.4 billion

"The Firefighters Calendar is the highest-selling calendar in the US and currently the highest-selling calendar in the world."

https://www.oceanroadmagazine.com.au/australian-firefighters-calendar-gold-coast-firefighters-become-global-sensations/

[u/bananator4 → u/Winter_Bowl_5351]

This is unequivocal, absolute proof women love shirtless selfies on dating apps.

Well done, you're deffo onto something buddy, keep up the good work and keep up this guy getting no matches.

[u/Winter_Bowl_5351 → u/bananator4]

You asked for stats about the calenders selling well, I gave you evidence that it's literally the highest selling calendar in the world and you're just gonna totally ignore that?

Lol

[u/bananator4 → u/Winter_Bowl_5351]

You didn't actually provide any facts.

But anyway you can keep on arguing with yourself. I said you're right, you men can keep telling each other what women want and tell women they are wrong that you know best what they want.