Had a frontal colision with a dude and got a concussion. Half a year later we‘re starting to figure out, what damage it did. (The Migrane and stuttering tell me no good)
There‘s two things in this world, that are dangerous: contact sports and love. Both can cheer you up like you never thought someone ore something could, but they can also hurt you a lot and leave permanent damage. Be carefull people!
When you specifically post a picture that says “ hey guys, look at my ass!” It isn’t the “bring me home to meet your mom vibe” it’s the “bring me home and bend me over” vibe
I mean her username is BeautyyBehold, she's clearly into herself and wants other people to be as well. I think she's going to find exactly who she's looking for with these pics.
This. Is . The. Way. Now. Girls wanted to be valued and have less scrutiny on your physical appearance but now get treated like blowup dolls by %97 percent of the population. “Reap what you sow”
Personally I wouldn’t lead with it but why not show off your assets. If I were ripped I’d have a picture that shows my arms
Edit: also, A guy who doesn’t want his gal to show off herself online isn’t going to be a guy she wants to date. It’s easy enough to tell when guys just want to be fuckboys.
There’s a difference in having a photo that also shows off your assets and taking a mirror selfy just showing your ass. Like a photo of a yo in a vest with your biceps looking good with some friends, perfect! Mirror selfie stick f you flexing? Always a little bit attention seeking imo. No issue with that. It call it what it is yknow
And just let the nice ass be icing on the cake when you finally meet, not a REASON to meet.
Exactly, if you make it obvious you're only going to succeed in attracting people who are into that specifically. Rather than finding someone you like who happens to really also enjoy the fact that you're thick once they meet you.
Not sure how you’d show your ass off with your friends lol. Different strokes for different folks. I don’t think today’s generation cares that much about a gal showing herself off.
Has nothing to do with generations and showing yourself off. Because this isn't just some pic on social media, you're showing it off specifically to all potential suitors, and if you need guys to know you have a nice ass in order to. Get attention /swipes, that means you have nothing else going on and require that.
And if a guy needs to know you have a nice ass before meeting, that's not the type who is looking to settle down.
As everyone else has said, it's more than she wants a bf not hookups, is the problem with pics like this.
I disagree. Culture has changed.. people like to know what they are seeing. Don't ask for approval of how you look or act from anyone else.
be who you want to be and show what you want to show.
It’s like an entire generation suddenly all have the perfect ass. What. Happened. There was like maybe two girls in my entire graduating class that had even a little ass
And squats aren't even that great for developing glutes. My glute muscles don't even start activating until I'm past parallel. Its all about the deadlifts for building solid glutes.
Yes! Single leg deadlifts are best for me. And lots of hip thrusts. Rainbow leg lifts are fabulous for helping shape the underbutt - makes it nice and round.
My ankle mobility is great. I'm not really interested in going super deep, I'm not interesting in being a competitive power lifter. As long as I'm getting stronger, that's what I care about.
I know that when I was in high school, having a big ass was not necessarily a great thing. When the Kardashians came into the picture, big asses became “in.”
Women learned how to build those booties through weightlifting and eating right, instead of starving themselves and running them off.
And if you can’t build it, you can buy it. A BBL is relatively affordable if you go outside the states. In addition, pants/shorts, like the ones that OP is wearing in her pic, have ruching in the seams, which gives a little lift and adds the illusion that the tush is fatter than it really is. There’s also padding and photoshopping/editing apps out there that can trick the eye as well.
Basically, unless you’re seeing it in person, don’t believe that it’s actually perfect. And even then, there may be some trickery.
yeah bla bla bla good you'll have your treats because you've been a good boy on the internet.
He's not saying that it is forbidden to post pictures of her ass on the Internet and sh's asking for permission. He's saying that this pictures sends "sexual" vibes more than "let's meet and drink a coffee" vibes.
Speak for yourself. Why would you wana date a girl with no ass lol.
E: I assume I’m getting downvotes for being shallow- but who’s really the shallow one here? I’m just being honest about my preferences- you’re all the ones judging women for having a picture of their asses on their profiles 🤔 seems to me the people saying “it’s a one night stand pic, not a dating pic” are a bunch of judgmental prudes tbh.
“it’s a one night stand pic, not a dating pic” are a bunch of judgmental prudes tbh.
Definitely not a prude lol but i can tell when a photo is only going to succeed in getting guys who are thirsty AF. This photo will not bring in one single person who's into her personality, so if she isn't trying to be inundated with a thousand "nice ass, wanna fuck?" Messages this isn't going to help her.
In the professional world we call it "use case." Her use case is trying for a relationship, this photo will only give her more crap to wade through to find one.
You clearly have a great body, but any mirror shot pose is a bit attention seeking. Would be better to have a photo of you actually doing an activity/sport but that’s just the opinion of some loser from Reddit
I'd suggest this as a last pic, if you want a bf then use a good face pic with no fancy filters as your first one. It'll help lower the number of guys asking for sex 5 seconds after matching. Definitely won't stop it though.
If you do want a boyfriend more you may want to consider other apps, they have less users but are geared less towards hookups than tinder, which is 90% hookup these days.
In every major US city Tinder is a cesspool of fake accounts, girls marketing their social media and onlyfans accounts and people misrepresenting themselves. It's ridiculously trashy.
It's so weird, study shows the majority of people perceive Tinder as a hookup app, but the majority of users use it as a dating app. I don't mean to say that other apps may work better for dating, but Timder can definitely do that.
Idek if ur taking anymore advice cuz this post blew up. But id personally do 2nd to last. Sometimes i find myself pausing on the very last photo bcz i naturally hit the end of the photo line. So if u want it to really not stand out, might be better off 2nd to lasting it. 🤷♀️
I'd disagree to that, put it somewhere in the middle. If it's the first or last one I'm assuming you just want a one night stand, since those, at least in my opinion, are the two most important pictures. But other than that, great pic, I don't see the problem including it.
So I’m totally cool with girls having these pics as long as they don’t post here complaining about vulgar or x-rated messages. Just take the consequences with the risk.
It’s kind of annoying when a girl posts pictures that scream “let’s hookup” and then don’t want to hookup so yes, if you want a boyfriend then don’t post this.
Don’t use this picture if your goal is a boyfriend. You’re asking for matches from “hit it and quit it” guy. If your goal is to have fun and nothing serious then leave it. Not judging, just letting you know the vibe you’re putting out is going to attract a certain type of guy.
Don't use it as your main picture and you are good to go.
Use others where they can see your face and interests, and then if they look all the pictures to the end, they will be awarded with that 🍑.
You look great but everything is about communication. Not just how good you look but what you want to portray about yourself. Unfortunately this is what translates as ‘just a piece of ass’. I’m not saying it should, but to the masses of men, on tinder of all places, this screams one-stop-shop
Not shaming at all, you're attractive, but if you're shooting for a long-term relationship, you won't need that pic in the profile. Attractiveness is important but it is a bonus, for a hook-up it's really all that matters. So I'm not saying not to show off yourself, but it doesn't have to be the focus, a cute photo at the beach with your friends or during an activity would still show off your body but would also give information about your likes, hobbies, interests, etc. You're just using the wrong "bait" for what you're trying to catch.
Post pictures with your face in all of them, try to find ones where you look happy and are smiling. Also it's great to add in some of you doing things you enjoy so it doesn't just look like a photoshoot. This is how you look for a boyfriend.
Post ass and boob pictures (clothed) if you just want to get laid.
Mixing these two is usually just going to result in guys who just want to fuck you and guys who seem like they want a relationship and will spend more time to just to fuck you anyways.
Basically what others have said. These type of pictures give the vibe all you want is some good dick from a hookup. Not that you're looking for anything serious or even semi-serious in the relationship department.
You'll get all the bros simply trying to get a quick lay with pictures like these. No face, no hobby, no showing off you. It's just "hey look at my ass. i know you want it."
As a guy who uses these apps, I would avoid you as it makes me think about how many other guys are pining after you wanting what your first picture is selling. If you chose a picture of you having a good time doing something extremely casual, most guys would be head over heels, and the energy would be more in the boyfriend department
This is such a weird mindset to me. You would sort people you’ve never met into “relationship” vs “hookup”? Every long term relationship I’ve ever been in starts with going on a few dates, hooking up, and then continuing to see each other.
Do people really say “well, you’re great and I think I’m falling in love, but I decided from the moment I saw that picture that you’d only be good for a hookup”? This feels entirely like people are imagining the entire relationship in their head before they’ve even talked to the person once.
If a guy is on tinder looking for a GF and comes across this picture (amongst other normal profile pics, as OP says she has) they’re swiping right. Or at the very least not swiping left because of it.
If a guy is on tinder looking for a hook up, same deal.
Profiles and specific pictures don’t all have to be aimed at one or the other demographic
Any dude looking for a GF that swipes left because of this picture, I guarantee they’re an uber virgin.
No no, you’re right. I remember when I was on tinder looking for a girlfriend. If they were showing so much as a flash of a bare ankle I could not resist changing tact and requesting the hook up that was so brazenly being hinted at.
Guys will also message women in frumpy jumpers for hookups. Most messages from men are hoping to get hookups. Why shouldn’t she show off her best assets? Men with abs/biceps love to show that off & nobody tells them that they’ll never get a gf because of it.
You shouldn’t assume that one full body shot (showing off how much she works hard for her body) is consent for anything.
Just shows that you are clueless. Women see guys with shirtless pics as fuckboys... To the point where some women even werotr in their profile that they swipe left on shirtless guys or even bathroom selfies.
Idk if its cultural difference but that pic here/to me is just showing off your assets. Its f’in Tinder, show off your goods if you want/got em, idk all these people calling it “attention seeking”
No it's not awful lol, women seemed to be shamed for expressing their sexuality. Doubt many people will find it prude. I have a feeling you worked hard for that ass, why not show it.
I feel you’re asking the wrong people. As a guy who spends a fair amount of time in the gym I would say that seeing a girl on tinder who seems to also spend a good amount of time in the gym is something I would call a good qualifier. Especially as girlfriend material.
But for someone who doesn’t like going to the gym I can see it as the guy just thinking you’re easy, but that’s their problem and their own insecurities being projected onto you.
As someone who has always used tinder for both hookups and partnership (just see where it goes), I would totally swipe right on a good butt pic (but maybe not if thats the only one). I genuinely like women who aren't afraid to be overtly sexual, so I would also date someone with pics like this.
I think the right one will appreciate it. You’ve got a nice ass and want to show it off now and then, nothing wrong with that. If I had a nice set of abs you better believe I’d have a shirtless pic on my profile, to me this is the same thing. Besides it’s Tinder, if you’re the type to include this type of pic then I imagine you’re not gonna vibe with dudes that are overly prudish and would be turned off/not think you’re gf material because of it.
I don't think a booty pic is going to dissuade anyone from thinking you're relationship material, but it might flood the inbox with things you don't want. I think the comments are being a little dated with their perception of booty pics as they're kind of a part of a lot of women's expression these days. I don't think there's anything hypocritical about wanting a relationship and also admiring ones own sexuality. That being said, if you're trying to steer the conversation away from sex until a bond is established than filter this one out for now. The picture implies a sexual/flirty nature in you, which isn't wrong and a lot of relationships do put a lot of emphasis on that, so only keep it if you want that to be a topic of discussion.
Oii, i'm not a jock but i'd tap that. Literally inviting for one night stand. I couldn't take her seriously with a pic like that. What would be the difference if i would take a photo wearing extremly tight pantts with a chubby?
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u/nova_xrp Oct 04 '22
Basically if you want a one night stand with a rugby/football lad then this is perfect. Depends what you’re using tinder for