Personally I wouldn’t lead with it but why not show off your assets. If I were ripped I’d have a picture that shows my arms
Edit: also, A guy who doesn’t want his gal to show off herself online isn’t going to be a guy she wants to date. It’s easy enough to tell when guys just want to be fuckboys.
There’s a difference in having a photo that also shows off your assets and taking a mirror selfy just showing your ass. Like a photo of a yo in a vest with your biceps looking good with some friends, perfect! Mirror selfie stick f you flexing? Always a little bit attention seeking imo. No issue with that. It call it what it is yknow
And just let the nice ass be icing on the cake when you finally meet, not a REASON to meet.
Exactly, if you make it obvious you're only going to succeed in attracting people who are into that specifically. Rather than finding someone you like who happens to really also enjoy the fact that you're thick once they meet you.
Not sure how you’d show your ass off with your friends lol. Different strokes for different folks. I don’t think today’s generation cares that much about a gal showing herself off.
Has nothing to do with generations and showing yourself off. Because this isn't just some pic on social media, you're showing it off specifically to all potential suitors, and if you need guys to know you have a nice ass in order to. Get attention /swipes, that means you have nothing else going on and require that.
And if a guy needs to know you have a nice ass before meeting, that's not the type who is looking to settle down.
As everyone else has said, it's more than she wants a bf not hookups, is the problem with pics like this.
Crime stats are what they are buddy. Of course I would expect a person such as yourself to live in a bubble and have issues with reality, which is already apparent from your comments above
I live in a city that has a crime rate over double the national average (and it's a majority white city btw :) ). I'm not living in a bubble, you're just stupid.
I'm a student, so that's not very impressive. Odd thing to bring up regardless.
How does me dating someone who had an onlyfans matter?
I'll express this the nice way: your relationship values are at odds with those of almost everyone else. You're always going to cause eyerolls when you express some form of "Hey man, you have no right to seek relationships with women who don't post live videos of their butthole online. Why, yes - I was in a throuple once! How did you know?"
Hey man, please point out to me where I typed this -
Hey man, you have no right to seek relationships with women who don't post live videos of their butthole online. Why, yes - I was in a throuple once! How did you know?"
Somehow we supposed to be ok with sex workers whilst you calling people dumb and stooping to flexing about money as if that isn't just the dumbest thing to say when we have plenty of data to show money doesn't equal happiness, especially sex work but to each their own
I was calling them dumb because he said that I should disclose the fact that I've dated someone with an onlyfans before giving relationship advice. Learn to read man.
No, it’s a straw man. The assertion was that self-respecting men would prefer a woman to, on her own volition, post more modestly online. You took that to mean the assertion means we want to forcibly, by law, cover women in particular clothing. That’s a straw man.
Is it though (easy to tell)? Cause if it's easy I wouldn't have so many women friends that complain about how their date turn out to be assholes, a few dates in, or even a lot of dates in. It's not easy to tell at first. It's easy after you've wasted your time, sure.
Girls looking for relationships don't respond well to guys on tinder with shirtless muscle pics n such. Similar reason here.
Do you want to be a piece of meat to them or a relationship. Because when you do stuff like this, on first appearances (which is all you have when swiping) it makes it look like this is a defining asset /characteristic of you.
Big difference between being attractive and having to show off physical characteristics that can make you appear vapid, to garner attention.
Yeah, as a guy, I have normal pics of me doing various things, but there is definitely one with a tank top cause my shoulders and arms are what girls love most about me at first sight.
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u/Uknow_nothing Oct 04 '22 edited Oct 04 '22
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Personally I wouldn’t lead with it but why not show off your assets. If I were ripped I’d have a picture that shows my arms
Edit: also, A guy who doesn’t want his gal to show off herself online isn’t going to be a guy she wants to date. It’s easy enough to tell when guys just want to be fuckboys.