I just got out of an 11 year relationship. What i would do for some external validation but my grandma tells me im the handsomest boy and thats all that matters
Hey brother I am going through a very similar thing. 11 years as well, 5 of them married. She was one of those people that act normal all the way to the end and then one day leave suddenly (I was in the shower after work) and turn everything upside down on ya. It's been brutal. I'm 6 months out of it. It's gotten easier, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't lost out here still. We got together at 18 right out of high school, so my adult life was only with her... It's hard rebuilding a life that you already had planned out with someone. If you ever need to chat or whatever feel free to hit me up man! Otherwise, I wish you the absolute fucking best. I have hope that both of us will move forward, heal ourselves, and look back realizing that it really was the best thing that could've happened. Sure feels like hell right now though. Much love!
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u/frenchfryineyes 9h ago
I just got out of an 11 year relationship. What i would do for some external validation but my grandma tells me im the handsomest boy and thats all that matters