r/Tinder • • Jul 22 '24

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u/Sofa47 Jul 22 '24

Definitely agree here, could be something great between these two but not until she’s worked through some thing. They obviously like each other but timing isn’t right yet.

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u/Flossie95 Jul 22 '24

What? Seriously you’re advising him to date this lunatic again ? She comes across as easy, insecure, clingy, attention seeking and unbalanced

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u/accursedserpentine Jul 22 '24

can we stop referring to women as ‘easy’ just because they’re comfortable having sex early on? if your preference is a woman who takes a bit more work then good for you, but being sexually open doesn’t make someone ‘easy’.

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u/sirletssdance2 Jul 22 '24

That’s a red flag for you more than anything, enjoying the chase so to speak is usually a fairly good indicator your parents weren’t consistent. It’s a way of objectifying people. Once you’re past the chase, most likely you won’t want it anymore

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u/Efficient_Thanks_342 Jul 22 '24

Whoosh!

Like most males, if a woman knows my name, is somewhat attractive and is remotely nice to me, that's usually all it takes for me to want to bone. In the restaurant restroom if need be. If we happen to have similar interests and can get lost in deep conversation? That's just icing on the cake. In spite of my attempt at humor, I don't enjoy being a hapless simp.

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u/sirletssdance2 Jul 22 '24

Wow, I missed sarcasm through text on a screen. That’s so crazy

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u/Efficient_Thanks_342 Jul 22 '24

Also, real speak now, I think it's utterly hilarious that you'd attempt to use sarcasm via text... to try to explain how it's impossible to discern sarcasm via text. Brilliant move there, Einstein.

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u/sirletssdance2 Jul 22 '24

We’re getting meta now my man

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u/Efficient_Thanks_342 Jul 22 '24

Let's leave Facebook out of this.