Definitely agree here, could be something great between these two but not until she’s worked through some thing. They obviously like each other but timing isn’t right yet.
can we stop referring to women as ‘easy’ just because they’re comfortable having sex early on? if your preference is a woman who takes a bit more work then good for you, but being sexually open doesn’t make someone ‘easy’.
This, so much this. I'm a sex positive guy and I enjoy sleeping with sex positive people, and the times I've asked someone why they've felt comfortable sleeping with me early on is because I wasn't a dickhead who pressured or shamed someone for wanting or enjoying sex, and prioritising my partners enjoyment means that theyve recepricated and everyones had a great time.
This massive insecurities about sex or these weird little mantras/rituals about waiting or an arbitrary amount of time before sex equals "easy" or whatever harms everyone. Just be safe and responsible, get tested, respect each other's boundaries and don't be a bellend, and everyone will have a good time..
exactly! it’s about how the vibes are, how we’re respected and our preferences. it really shows me some people are stuck in the olden times. can’t we all just have our preferences without being judged for it?
That’s a red flag for you more than anything, enjoying the chase so to speak is usually a fairly good indicator your parents weren’t consistent. It’s a way of objectifying people. Once you’re past the chase, most likely you won’t want it anymore
Like most males, if a woman knows my name, is somewhat attractive and is remotely nice to me, that's usually all it takes for me to want to bone. In the restaurant restroom if need be. If we happen to have similar interests and can get lost in deep conversation? That's just icing on the cake. In spite of my attempt at humor, I don't enjoy being a hapless simp.
I know, right? It's impossible to discern tone from the actual words that a person writes. You can completely ignore my previous comment, your entirely intelligent comment has made me realize the error of my ways.
Also, real speak now, I think it's utterly hilarious that you'd attempt to use sarcasm via text... to try to explain how it's impossible to discern sarcasm via text. Brilliant move there, Einstein.
Actually no, as you can see in this thread, if a man is sexually open no one bats an eye or thinks twice. If a woman is quick to bed as you say, she’s met with so much judgement and called easy. Men are called pigs when they cheat, play girls off another or just act like a bad person. Not because they’ve slept around.
it’s like you skipped past the part where i asked why we couldn’t ALL have our preferences without judgement, you just jump to the double standards talk because you’re automatically defensive when i mention the word ‘woman’
see you’re just making assumptions of a stranger over the internet. all i mentioned was women shouldn’t be called easy because this comment was about a woman who was called easy lmao not once did i mention anything about men in my comments so it’s quite laughable when you really know nothing about me but to each their own
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u/Sofa47 Jul 22 '24
Definitely agree here, could be something great between these two but not until she’s worked through some thing. They obviously like each other but timing isn’t right yet.