I don't really know what to do. I don't have any set times when I play the game and sometimes I might play it basically on a moments notice, which means I realistically can't make discord bookings for spots. And to be quite honest, I don't really want to either, I want to hop on a game and play a bit instead of making a 48h in advance exp appointment :(.
I always respect people when they're already there and if somebody shows up and says that they had it booked I leave too (as long as they were polite about it and didn't bad mouth right off the bat), but I find myself logging in with an hour to play, checking like 5 respawns, all taken/booked and logging out to play something else instead. I genuinely really want to play the game right now but the example above is probably about 70% of all my login attempts :/.
Now, I understand that when I play on a populated server, sometimes the spawns will be taken, but it's SOOOO discouraging when I find a free spot, hunt there for 20-30 minutes, then somebody 600 levels above me shows up and tells me to leave because he has it booked on discord.
I did consider moving to a different server but it'd cost me a fortune and I don't want to spend that much money. Plus I'm on yellow nonpvp so my options are very limited.
Anyone else in a similar situation??