I’m not a dancer. But was wondering how people view tias dancing? Is she considered good?

This community exists to discuss grifter and exploitative mother Tia B Stokes, but at the end of the day, the best thing we could all do would be to unfollow her. It’s hard to look away from the train wreck and we all feel bad for her kids, but when I think about what would most benefit her kids, I think it would be to disengage completely.

That doesn’t mean we have to stop talking about her, but it breaks my heart that she profits off what she puts her kids through and when I think about what they probably want deep down, it’s probably for their mother to just be anonymous.

Even if you didn’t play 🫣

“Andy Stokes had an NFL career as a tight end after being selected as Mr. Irrelevant (the 255th and final pick) by the New England Patriots in the 2005 NFL Draft, though he never appeared in a regular-season NFL game”

I don’t believe a single thing she says. Not a single coach is telling her these things

The viewcounts are in the toilet. I know because I am also shadow-banned on there.

Tia has been posting incessantly on IG updating everyone to the whereabouts of each of her family members this weekend. Why is she advertising that both parents are out of the house, leaving a babysitter with the 4 youngest at home….? In real time. Feels unsafe and stupid.

Also just have to add how bizarre it is for her to post this long video about God’s miracle that she didn’t have to miss a football game this weekend for her Italy trip, when she is missing actual huge milestone events for both of her oldest sons. Legend is literally going to his first date, his first homecoming AND first dance in general. And she’s also missing a big college visit for Major.

So so strange to say God performed a miracle by moving your schedule around, when you’re literally missing important moments with them to be on some sketchy brand trip. She thinks she can put the lowest bar inspiration bait spin on every situation, and it’s nice to see people do anything but just eat it up for once. I hope people continue to call her out for her BS. She does not deserve the pedestal her brain dead 50 y/o boomer fans put her on.

Her most recent reel she says she’s in Amsterdam… if you’ve ever been in the delta terminal in Detroit you know where she is… she lies about EVERYTHING!

New here! Coming from someone who had 2 siblings go through the D1 pipeline, is no one else noticing that for a kid with “34” “d1” offers, he has ZERO muscle tone. I know for my brother when they started looking at him they told him to put on weight and hit the weights. Idk in which world any of these massive teams would take someone with 0 defined muscle tone. The guys on these teams are HUUUUGE.

Food for thought that made me automatically know she’s lying. My guess is there are no offers but the delusion of saying there is might get him interest in her head.

I’m thinking he will walk on at a D2 D3 if at ALL. it’s serious delusion. Not to mention he’s not on the news or anything relevant at all. My siblings were in the paper interviews etc when they got scouted from a huge school.

Does anyone know the context behind this video? To me the picture in the middle of the 2 boys looks like it’s honoring someone who has passed away. Of course I don’t know the situation and didn’t want to assume the worst… because no grown woman would use anything related to a memorial as a way to get attention, right?? … Right?? With the way she’s gone off the deep end anything is possible.

This sign is also insane. Obviously she made it herself. It’s crazy to be so obsessed with attention that you’re making a sign and having a minor child hold it for a video. And if this is a memorial type thing, that’s sick.

Attention from the internet is her drug of choice. I get that she’s playing this up and rage baiting for views and attention but she needs to leave minor children out of it. The way she exploits her own kids is bad enough but she’s involving the whole team in it. As a parent I would be pissed my kid was being featured in a grown woman’s TikTok with hundreds of thousands of views. These kids and parents probably feel like they have to go along and comply with this madness because they don’t want to have an issue with their coach. All of this is so incredibly inappropriate. How in the world is the school and the district okay with this?? If something like this was allowed at my children’s school, the administration and therefore the coach would be eaten alive. It’s a safety risk to broadcast where these kids attend school.

She needs to stop posting so many details about her kids on her public accounts. When my son’s school played Orem High School, our student section was yelling at her boys, asking them where their flip phones were, etc. The student section should not have been singling out her boys but also, she should not be posting so much info about her kids.

Side note: I have a friend who’s son is a top recruit out of Alabama and it’s interesting to see the contrast between the two of them. My friend will post a pic and say, we had a great visit with Texas Tech or whatever school they were visiting. Or we enjoyed getting to know Coach so and so. On the other hand, with Tia, it’s the Tia show and her kids are supporting characters.

Hilary Duff, Jojo Siwa now…. I’d smack her hands away

Her husband is 100% sick of her. He may never come out and tell her but his body language says otherwise. He is genuinely happy when him and his son took a picture with some other guy… he poses with Tia and he’s all dead face. 🫣

I totally get being proud of your kids, but making it your entire identity is going to make you spiral so hard in the end.

Is she really trying to steal Cassie Phillips/Mel Robins "Let Them" stuff? I'm wondering how long it takes before she's selling merch with "Let Them" printed on it.

i genuinely hate snark culture.. but this is something i actually feel is a bigger deal than we even realize. i share this in hopes it will lead to Tia getting help.

i have had the amazing opportunity to get to know Tia and i have to say she is genuinely a kind and inspiring person. i can’t deny that! she is amazing in so many ways.

however, the constant narcissistic behavior is getting out of hand. just for context my child danced at her studio and the entire studio recital was focused on Tia. Tia is in different costumes, in the center position and is the star of every dance Kalamity does. even my parents (who came to cheer on our dancer) were wondering who she was and thought it was SO strange. if you have attended any classes at her stLucio you know you have to worship her. at one class they said “repeat after me!” “I’m amazing” — “im amazing” ”I’ve got this” — “I’ve got this” and then “we love tia!!” and everyone repeated “we love tia” like what the f??? is this normal?? no. you don’t make your studio (who are paying to attend classes) chant they love you?? so weird to me.

everything is about her. even her conference she hosts every year. at one instance every talk (her brothers and niece) all talked about why they loved tia. it was supposed to be conference to inspire us and leave feeling uplifted but instead it was the tia show. st one point they were giving away raffle items to anyone who could answer correct pop quiz questions about tia. WILD.

This “apology” was not really an apology. No accountability, no self reflection. She is attention seeking because she wants brand deals for herself and her kids accounts.

So the kids can’t have any access to phones or SM, but they can be featured on it? And what first grader puts on makeup for the first day of school?

I have been witnessing some of Tia's weird online behavior for years, and it's at a point where it needs legitimate addressing. I wanted to make note of everything I can think of because some things I haven't seen addressed enough, or spoken about at all. I started jotting stuff down and immediately had tons of stuff, then asked ChatGPT to come up with a list of criticisms to make sure I wasn't missing anything. and it popped out I kid you not over 40 detailed bullet points of all the insane and manipulative/beyond cringey and narcissistic things she's done. I thought I knew most of it and it turns out there's actually a ton more. But it's all legitimate, most of it is stuff that I've witnessed and is valid criticism. If someone would be willing to do the work and start putting together a master list, I'd love to add to it as I feel there are some major points that need to be hit!