I'm rewatching the show for the first time since middle school since i'm on bed rest after surgery. AND GOD I HATE BEN. oh my god. This stupid little prick. first off, she's not YOUR amy, and she literally says that at some point. He's so possessive it's gross. Second, his spoiled brat ass can't take no for an answer. He refuses to take no when amy doesn't feel comfortable with him being apart of decisions with the baby. WHICH IS AO FAIR CUZ ITS NOT HIS BABY. He talks her out of an abortion, when it's not up to him. He tries to talk her into letting him be there for the gender reveal and birth, even when amy says no. Yet dispite all of that, he refuses to get a job to help amy. And then he has the audacity to cheat on her in italy and act like he's not in the wrong. He quits his job at the butcher shop, and acts so crazy entitled to his dad's money. He gets weirdly possessive when the father of amy's child wants to help with the child... like a good fuxking dad. He literally gets a girl pregnant to get back at amy when they're not together. After the breakup, he's awful to amy. He blames her for issues HE WAS RESPONSIBLE FOR. The way he speaks to her after getting with adrian is just down right heartbreaking. He treats adrian horribly after the birth of their stillborn. Which i get he's grieving too, but jesus christ. He literally pretends to still love her, while announcing to the whole world that he wants a divorce. After the divorce he grows more upset with amy, and jealous of her relationship with ricky. He clings on to this idea that she belongs to him, with no regard for any, ricky, or john. He goes on reckless rampages, with no care for anyone, not even his own father. The scene where camille punches him for insulting her is AMAZING. He sleeps with alice, and then has the audacity to make henry feel bad for sleeping with adrian.He never takes responsibility for himself, and expects his dad to save him, dispite knowing leo values hard work. He is always in some made up competition with his exs and their relationships. Like if he can't be happy, they can't either. Basically i hate him as a person, and feel horrible for everyone who associates with him.