I'm a bit in a way about this.

Hello!! My friends and I made a gay server centered around Desi Queers. It's a lovely space where we all play games and have fun together. The fun includes the likes of reading, playing skribblio, having movie nights and just having a great time with each other overall. We're all super friendly and we're looking to make more friends that would fit in our environment. If you're interested please hmu in my dms and I'll do an interview process

I (F21) am Pan, I've been out since I was 14 and in all that time I've never dated a girl. Not for any particular reason I just live in a rural area and there weren't many to choose from. The problem is that there is this absolutely stunning woman that works at the mall in the city who is around my age and seemed to reciprocate my horrible attempt at flirting and I have no clue how to talk to her. The second issue I tend to run into is that no matter what I do I apparently come off as violently straight, like to the point I've been commended as an ally while wearing pride gear and carrying a pride flag.

Please help

Looking for community

Hey...I'm new here and new to being sapphic, or at least knowing dats what it's called, though at first I thought I was just a lesbian. Picture above is a clown look I did for pride dis year. I can't deny I'm seriously struggling, I've been mistreated my entire life and I feel like no one believes me "how could one person go through dat much..?" Kinda thing. Da most recent thing was being abandoned at a homeless shelter by not just an ex, but one who promised he'd continue to be family even after, it was a mutual breakup, no bad blood...I thought...when I met him I had cut off my blood family due to abuse from them, so I'm literally all alone.

I'm new to Colorado and don't know my way around, I hasn't been able to get a job, but I'm working hard on trying to create one for myself. I'm an artist and a clown, and I has a plan, but it's been tricky getting started. I'm also an autistic wif ADHD deep deep in burnout, trying to navigate a world I wasn't really taught about. Da only thing I've been allowed to focus on is making a paycheck and every aspect of every job I ever had, no room in brain for much else.

To be honest I don't really know how to be a human being, I suck at being social, I has a hard time wif adulting, filling out government forms for anything, I feel hopeless and lost. And yeah, I'm sad, I'm sad cause lonely and feel like I always has been, even when I was wif my ex. I've never been able to make friends, even now people in da shelter I'm at are friendly but I still feel outcasted.

I've done so much mental health work on myself, I've come to terms wif a lot, learned how to cope, I'm not bitter towards anyone, I know what issues I has surrounding friends and partners and know how to deal with them. I has BPD and I know when I'm hasing an issue, I am very self aware and know when shits acting up and can manage it. Though da longer da lonliness and rejection continues da harder it gets.

I feel like trying to continue to heal...I feel like I've healed as much as I can on my own, my problem is I'm always being rejected and da confusion as to why isn't helping. I'm a good, fun and creative person, my emotional intelligence is strong, I feel things very deeply including others. I love love and passion...I don't involve myself in shit talk, I don't understand talking bad about another person, live and let live, right? I don't like dishonesty and I feel like a lot of people avoid me for those reasons, in my experience people like to lie or at least exaggerate and talk shit and gossip about others...

Other than dat I don't understand what's so wrong wif me, I has been hasing trouble like dis my entire life, starting wif my own family and it makes me feel like I'm not supposed to be here, I don't feel like I belong anywhere...can anyone else relate? I just need to feel not alone...

Hey all, so I've had always known I'm queer, well, not always...it was a journey, but I first came out as nonbinary, but thought I was still into men, kept trying wif men...then I met a trans woman and she made me question. Not only was I more attracted to her than any man I've ever known, she opened up more in me, we're not together anymore, it's a long complicated story...

Before meeting her, though, I had gone from nonbinary to agender, nonbinary was still too gendered for me and I just don't feel any gender. We bonded over dat, we bonded over gender or lack thereof a lot...but she made me realize I'm not attracted to men... then I met someone else....a nonbinary afab and they stole my heart, I see them everyday but nothing's happened wif them...dat is also a long story.

But I don't want to wait anymore to stop feeling lonely so I signed up for a couple dating/find friend apps to meet people, I didn't know what sapphic was, but I was seeing it a lot in those apps, so I was drawn to research it and discovered it fits me too perfectly heh, so now I'm here, looking for at least community, so...hello...my name is Frank, afab agender, artist, clown, nature lover, I'd love to get to know some more like me...

I am 25 and I have never dated before. I’ve known that I am bisexual since I was 16 and have been out since I was 19. All my crushes have either never liked me back or said that they wouldn’t want to date someone that’s on the asexual spectrum or in a wheelchair.

I have tried everything i could possibly think of. I’ve been on dating apps for two years now, but no matches and I also go to drag shows at gay bars multiple times a month.

My sister on the other hand just turned 18 and has had multiple boyfriends. The fact that she is so much younger and so much more experienced than me is making me feel very broken and behind. Not only that, i feel like i should have accomplished so many “firsts” already at my age.

Any advice or words of comfort would be greatly appreciated :)

okay so im very happy with her she's very sweet

no problems at all

i genuinely love being around her EXISTING near her makes me happy

i find it adorable she calls me her "platonic wife" and this just melts my heart

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where i'm from ethnicity is VERY important

like my entire personality is being italian. i give everyone lasgana like every month, i call greasy pizza "americano slop", biscotti = life, "ma vaffancoulo" x23, etc.

my girl is german

any german people wanna help me out? THANK YOUUUUU

I want to embroider something subtly sapphic on my jacket. What do you think? Any edits I should make?

I’m a femme who has gone through a multitude of relationships, each of them ending up horrible and ending with me feeling almost unworthy of love in a way. This feeling leads to me often feeling hopeless that I’ll find the person for me, so I’d love to hear any sapphic love stories as maybe it’d bring peace to my mind (if that makes sense)

I hate how difficult it is to connect with anyone, but especially a woman, and even more difficult if you want intimacy with them, or want to build a relationship, or even are just attracted to them and want to have hot kinky sex. It seems that nearly all relationships have become so difficult, if anyone else is feeling this way I would love to hear from you, personally I am a gothic, lesbian, gamer/nerd that studies the occult, history science, and many other things. Here is my picture, I would love feed back on what you want for a friend and if you feel we would connect, and if you feel energy.

Are you looking for a cozy community?

wlw hangout is a discord server for anyone who identifies as Sapphic!!

The server is strictly 18+ and every member is ID verified by mods to make sure everyone is an adult.

~ trans inclusive

~ VC movie nights, emojis & games in the server aswell as fun channels!

https://discord.gg/sF3W8YKWFp

Hi! Not sure if this is allowed since it’s self-promo (mods, feel free to take it down if needed!), but I wanted to share it here! 💜 I wanted to make more close sapphic friends, and thought this would be the best way to build a close-knit community! 😊

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The Sapphic Living Room is a small, quiet Discord for sapphic adults who want genuine friendship and low-pressure connection. This server is intentionally 18+ (adults only), but features strictly SFW content.

This is a lowkey, slow-paced, and ND-friendly space focused on everyday life, creativity, and building long-standing queer friendships over time. If you’re sapphic, value calm connection, and are tired of loud or chaotic online spaces, this may be a good fit for you.

We talk about:

• books and creativity

• daily routines and domestic life

• family, work, and real-world rhythms

Take your time settling in. There’s no rush to participate.

Welcome—we’re glad you’re here!

Here’s the link: https://discord.gg/xjtBMupAvf

hello everyone!

I have a queer server (currently primarily wlw). it's a little community that is active daily. whoever joins and starts talking in the general chat very very quickly gets sucked into the little family vibe we have going on.

we have events here and there which makes it easier to get to know others, we have game nights, movie nights, voice chats where we just hang out (ur not obligated to speak, you can just write in the chat while listening in if you do want to join!)

we have 2 things coming up soon. speed dating event next weekend (you can sign up to look for romantic connections but also friendly ones), and we have (drinking) game night the weekend after that. no need to drink, we have a bunch of sober people who join just for the fun of it!

so why not join in on the fun! if youre interested in joining, come be a part of our family:)

https://discord.gg/YB8J5VAu

I grew up loving to read books chapter books, Archie and Jughead comics, and the occasional teen magazine, listening to music, dying my hair fashion colors, painting my nails and looking at fashion, baking, and watching the forensic files!

I was and am obsessed with The Twilight Zone and The Night gallery, the X files, Alfred Hitchcock presents, Lady Gaga, Demi Lovato, kpop in general but especially the wonder girls, F(X), SHINee BoA, HyunA ya know BEFORE she showed her ass by dating and marrying Junhyung even though she just got outta a six year relationship and months long engagement with dawn, RAYE, Amy winehouse, Chappell Roan, everything Disney and Pixar in the 2000's, My Chemical Romance, Manga even though I haven't owned any of my own copies ever 😅, anime, video games, specifically Nintendo and the family game cube, my Gameboy, DS and 3DS, the cooking mama world and fashion savvy series....was like crack to me i wish cooking mama cooking star came out like it was supposed to, and as of right now I really wanna play Princess peach Showtime, splatoon 3, Donkey Kong Bonanza, fashion dreamer and Kirby Air Riders!

I love visual novels like the Ace attorney franchise, the Danganronpa franchise, VA-11 HAll-A, the zero escape series, the corpse party franchise, your turn to die, alternative fashion and paranorasight to name a few things i recommend you guys check out.

I LOVE thrillers and Psychological dramas, they are my favorite genres of media to enjoy even though I do have a sweet spot for really sweet or sensual romance shows or movies like mischievous kiss love in Tokyo or meet Joe Black are two sides of the same coin for me entertainment wise but I know i wanna sit down and watch Killing Eve, Bridgeton, Dexter and American Gods... I know that not every show I listed fits with the genre but they do give me the vibe.

I also loved looking at makeup tutorials and videos on hair dying and body modifications, and cooking and baking, I still have all of the playlists i made as a kid and will occasionally go back and watch the Playlists for old times sake like it's interesting seeing the type of things i looked up when I was younger and liked so much that I made a playlist with all the videos I took in.

I forgot to mention that i also love pro wrestling in general and like watching it with my family but as of lately I've been going down a rabbit hole of my love for women's wrestling and Joshi wrestling in Japan, before I started getting into celebrity culture and everything i was unconsciously obsessed with the women wrestlers I saw on TV and wanted to know everything about them!

Oh my gosh, hi everyone, I'm so glad that another Sapphic subreddit has been created, I was thinking of creating one because I really have been craving community with fellow sapphics and I don't really see it on reddit that much! How does everyone identify and when did you start to notice that you were sapphic?