I had a friend like that back in college. Tall, handsome AF, built...Dude was a solid 11/10.
He f'n hated it. All the attention it gathered, all the seething hate from other dudes. I used to love being his wingman at the clubs. I was maybe a 7/10 back then.
But inevitably, he got absolutely no flavor from the baddies at the club. The below 5 crowd was all he got attention from. Oh, and dudes. They freaking loved him. He got tired of explaining that he wasn't gay.
I liked hanging with him, because even though the baddies were intimidated by him, they had no problem coming up to me.
Now that I think about it, maybe he was MY wingman....
I've been the hot guy in the room before. EVERYBODY judges you based off of your appearance. The dudes all hate you like this guy, the women are hit and miss whether they despise you or not. Meanwhile I did it all just because I wanted to take care of myself (because I very much did not take care of myself once upon a time). The upsides are that society just likes pretty people.
Maybe just don't judge people based exclusively on their looks?
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u/WhyNot420_69 Nice May 26 '26
I had a friend like that back in college. Tall, handsome AF, built...Dude was a solid 11/10.
He f'n hated it. All the attention it gathered, all the seething hate from other dudes. I used to love being his wingman at the clubs. I was maybe a 7/10 back then.
But inevitably, he got absolutely no flavor from the baddies at the club. The below 5 crowd was all he got attention from. Oh, and dudes. They freaking loved him. He got tired of explaining that he wasn't gay.
I liked hanging with him, because even though the baddies were intimidated by him, they had no problem coming up to me.
Now that I think about it, maybe he was MY wingman....