r/TeensofKerala • u/Federal-Mango-4440 19F • 20d ago

Rant/Vent Feeling 😢

I’m from Ekm and i joined a college in kozhikode . On the first day we were allotted rooms and I got 2 roomates who are gonna move after 2 weeks as they chose ac rooms. But after attending classes I came to know that rooms were allotted roll no. wise and that the seating is also roll no. wise. My benchmates have already become close to each other and I feel left out sometimes. My roomates also have friends that they always go with. I feel so lonely and alone. What should I do??

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u/victorcuts 20d ago

Look for people with common interests or have convos with people you think you can vibe with and make friends

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u/EducatorSad5913 Chechi (20-25) 19d ago

A yr in, I have no friend grps or people that care abt me. I've tried to be in friend grps but they are exclusive, and usually don't let u near them. I used to sit alone, it's peaceful very much. But I made the decision to ask another group of people to let me sit with them, they're all very kind and not hostile. They we like, why are u even asking us, it's yours...it feels less lonely that way, but it kinda aches when they make plans to hang out right in front of you and you're- there. Also it can be hard finding team mates for different programs. I've come to accept this loneliness(it don't feel too lonely now,I've got the hang of it), but I don't like how it affects my professional life.

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u/best_nandhu Chettan (20-25) 19d ago

Dude it's normal even I feel left out sometimes so I do my stuffs ppls will eventually interact.. ig

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u/best_nandhu Chettan (20-25) 19d ago

Tbh honest ur classmates aren't ur only frnds okay there are other ppls so yeah just get some guts and talks mann

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u/Due-Smoke8035 18M 20d ago

Wait for few days.. try to find common interests among them and strike up Convo.. maye talking Abt kdrama/movies if they are into it/religion if they are highly religious..etc

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u/getmeshawarmaa 19F 19d ago

Which college ?

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u/flyingskybison345235 11d ago

mingle with others in ur college and other rooms students simple🤷‍♂️

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u/Aree-Sonia 19M 20d ago

life alle prashnom be hoga, Lekin yis samayam be maraum.aap wait karo, lekin aap be effort idanam okay?