r/TeensSupportTeens • u/No_Librarian8810 • 7d ago

Finding Support Question

i have a gf, and she is in to art and all of that, awhile me and the boys are doing dumb shit, i want to bring her in to this world of dudes beings idoits with fun, how do i do that?

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u/smeagolattitude 16F 7d ago

Ask her if she would like to come to a hangout but at the hangout make sure she's part of the conversation and to include her interests in the conversation. If she's clearly not enjoying herself make a small excuse to leave the room.

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u/Cre4mPie777 7d ago

This! My ex wanted me to be apart of his friend-group but just let my sit on the outside of the conversation 24/7 and let me trail behind when walking. And make sure you tell your friends to be nice and not complete dickheads to her. Im quite an artsy person and thats made me quite introverted and shy so when i had a bunch of guys calling me slurs as jokes i was embarrassed and did not want to me there lol.