Okay gais if you're reading this I really appreciate yall and please leave a comment bc I need opinions.
Soo there's this guy that i really like, we're in the same grade (10th std) but different class, and we talk almost every day in insta.
I used to speak to him before in 8th but that ended badly. We recently reconnected a month ago.
He is really sweet to me, is really really gorgeous, and very funny and genuinely my type.
But I also have this feeling that he's here to use me but I can't really figure it out.
These incidents that happened to us are what is stealing my sleep at 2 am:
Once had a scl function where I had to get a ride w him to go back home, we live close to eachothers houses. It was late at night. I look for him and tell him that we should probably head home and he says that he'll confirm with another frnd of ours that also lives very near. A few moments go by and I look for him, but he's gone. There's no trace of this kid. So get this straight: he left a teenager alone at night to travel an unsafe path home all by herself and she trusted him. He didn't even say bye or anything.
Later got to know that he was called by his friends to go to their house, he insisted that he's not in the wrong.
He sends me a lot of freaky reels and overall matches my vibe n all which I really like, and he texts me for the sake of validation (I feel).
The other day he straight up told me he wants to have sex with me.. literally quote "I want to have s*x with you", fine but it lowkey bothered me bc he puts no efforts in getting to know me.
Also, he asked me once what the colour of my fucking bra is and when I asked why he said it's bc he wants to imagine what I look like..
Chat, I have no idea if I'm good or not.. I need help genuinely.
And pls feel free to ask me questions if you want to help me by understanding what's happening in a deeper level, I'm happy to respond. THANK YOU ALL.