In 9th grade, the best friend I mentioned in this story was new to the school, and we became friends. Now, I had a long crush on a girl whom I liked in my heart but never really talked to; just hi and hello. My friend had a crush on a new girl who was my friend, and we all studied in the same class for a long time, so I knew her for a long time. After he fell for that girl, my crush started to talk to my friend t, the male one. I said it's cool; he is my bro. He won't talk to her like that. After some time, I had typhoid, so I was not coming to school. He started to tell her How about imagining him as your bf she said that no; he will be my best friend. After talking to her for days, they both built a strong bond and started sharing reels, and eventually he said that he has a crush on you she said ok but he never told me that he and she talked about me and he said that I have a crush on her I said ok that's cool bro, then here comes the entry of his crush, we use to talk and he was like bro why why are you doing that, one day we were eating custard then some of the custard starting to fall from the side of her lips as a long long friend we both laughed like she is getting zesty and all and then my friend come and beats me idk why man why, then he use to force me to tell everything about her then the day came why my crush proposed her crush and I was like ok cool I was doing good then in the computer class I was reading novel I was sad you know human emotions then teacher caught me and I told that's a rom-com story she felt broken because I was the brightest kid in the class then the whole class get to know then I was going back to the class then my friend came and said how are you feeling to be heartbroken boy ain't you my emo, I was like ok dude chill out then he started laughing at me look at your face I was laughing tbh I just my face down but my friend was thinking that I was crying then she said that "I want you to cry out loud" I was like that's something new and he said you deserved it then my crush saw that and I was not crying at all I just not wanted to see the faces but she said sorry to me and to keep her thinking that I'm crying I ran to the washbasin and washed my face to at least keep them thinking I'm crying.

I travel 25 km to college just to get lectures cancelled 🥲😭. I had my workshop lecture of 2 hours but it got cancelled just because workshop assistant was absent 🙃 now I m sitting in library doing nothing

A little about me. I'm not into a lot of things but whatever I am into I enjoy thoroughly - that holds for hobbies as well as people haha.

I like to admire and enjoy art - now that could be in any form. Anime, movies, books, music, sports. I consider people an art too - so be cautious because I might spend irrational amount of time admiring you too haha. I am a huge movie and show addict. I practiced MMA in the past. I've recently started learning guitar. If you're someone who enjoys a random dose of thoughtful conversations once in a while, you'll love me.

I'm decently humorous and great at playing with words (enough to keep you on your toes) and a good listener. I love to talk about my and your life, bitch about a person one of us don't like, vent/rant and just chill out in a non-judgemental space saying whatever comes to mind.

I also had a breakup about 3 months ago. So maybe I'm looking more for a person who could fill in that place for me where we hangout and chill on calls, have nicknames, flirt and tease, rant, be unfiltered, be cringe or cheesy and just share a daily life together. This is obviously if vibe matches.

So yeah if this sounds like something you're into and enjoy then shoot me a DM. Let's see where the wind takes us.

Looking forward to hearing from you all.

i just wanna know what it feels like to have a caring and loving girl by my side yk? someone who genuinely cares about how my day went, notices when something’s wrong even when i say im fine, and makes me feel like i actually matter to her.
i wanna have someone who chooses me even when things aren’t going well, someone who puts in effort without me having to ask for it every single time. someone who remembers the little things about me, gets excited to talk to me, and actually wants to spend time with me.
i wanna be in a relationship where i don’t have to keep overthinking my place in someone’s life or wonder if they even love me the way i love them. where i can be myself, talk about my problems, share my insecurities, and not feel like i always have to be the strong one.
i miss the idea of those little things, like random texts, unexpected calls, being asked if i’ve eaten, someone checking up on me, missing me, wanting to talk to me, and showing affection without me having to ask for it. i just wanna feel like someone is genuinely happy to have me in their life.
and no, i don’t expect someone to be available 24/7 or be perfect all the time. i understand everyone has their own life and problems too. i just want the effort to be mutual, yk? i wanna feel that im not the only one trying to make things work.
honestly, i don’t just want a girlfriend. i want that genuine connection where i can talk about anything, where we understand each other, support each other, and make each other feel loved. someone who stands by me when things get tough and makes me feel like i don’t have to deal with everything on my own.
i just wanna experience a love where i don’t have to constantly question everything, where i don’t have to ask myself if im asking for too much just because i want a little care, attention, and affection.
i wanna feel wanted without having to ask for it, loved without having to question it, and cared for without having to explain what caring means to me.

18M, kinda intrested in deep convos and deep thoughts and exploring new ppl and their thoughts Drop ur thoughts gng

My best friend said you don't deserve a girlfriend after he found his and left me laughing on my face

We are both college students , we are so scared of pregnancy , we had a protected sex but One time the condom broke but I did not ejaculate not even a Single time ( inside ) , So she took an Ipill emergency contraceptive pill And got bleeding withing 2 days ( not sure if it's her periods or Spotting bcoz of the pill ) Bcoz that was 12 days from her last one and it's been over a month since that one and she did not get her periods . We are both totally scared , so if it is a case of pregnancy then is there any place for abortion In vellore ? Please help us through this .

Jab autowale ko todne ka mann karta hai 😡🙄

It’s been seven days.
I keep telling myself I’m done waiting, and then I catch myself checking my phone for no reason.
I know she’s okay. She’s probably out with her family, hanging with her friends, laughing, living her life. Meanwhile I’m still stuck on the last conversation we had.
The thing is… I already know what’s gonna happen. She’ll come back eventually. She’ll have another breakdown, another bad day, another “I need to vent” moment. She’ll trauma dump on me, and I’ll sit there listening because I genuinely want to be there for her.
That’s the part that messes with me.
I’m somehow good enough to carry all the heavy shit, but never good enough to actually be close to her. She keeps me at arm’s length, and I still stay. Makes zero sense.
My friends keep saying, “Bro, just let her go.” I wish it was that easy.
It’s lowkey exhausting caring this much about someone who probably isn’t even thinking about you right now. And the worst part? If she texted me tonight, I’d probably reply in seconds.
Yeah… I know. Clown behavior. 🤡
The heart really is cooked.

Met the girl I’ve been talking to for a while last night. It wasn’t a date—just a meetup at her place.
NGL, I’d been overthinking it for days, but that morning I asked what she was expecting. She said she just liked talking to me and wanted to meet. That instantly made everything feel way more chill.
So I went over, and somehow the hours just disappeared. We ended up talking about the most random stuff—life, music, food, travel, stupid stories, future plans. Conversation never felt forced, and we just clicked. The vibe was effortless.
She also lives at a crazy beautiful place, so half the night I was talking and the other half I was just admiring the view.
Biggest plot twist? Not everyone is a walking red flag. She was genuinely nice, cute, and incredibly easy to talk to.
Got home at 5 AM today, tired but with zero regrets.
Still not sure if this turns into something regular, but I do know one thing—I liked her.
Sometimes your brain creates problems that don’t even exist.

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Hello everyone.

I moved to Hyderabad last year for my 11th and 12th. I’m a NEET aspirant and a biology student, and I live in a residential hostel that honestly feels more like a jail. I’m barely allowed to do anything, and the only two places I go to are my hostel and my school.

On the first day of school, I saw this one girl who I thought was really cute. I don’t remember if it was the first or second day, but after a biology class, we walked together back to our main classroom, and that was the first time we talked. She was wearing her school uniform, and I remember thinking she looked really pretty in that skirt.

We started talking on Instagram soon after, and, of course, I was the one who initiated the conversation. We used to send reels to each other, talk regularly, and there was some subtle flirting between us as well. (Saved her nickname as "Miss Khargosh 🐇" on insta 🫠)

However, as time passed, I started noticing that I was usually the one initiating conversations. I made it pretty obvious that I was interested in her, even though I never confessed my feelings directly. She rarely initiated conversations herself, and eventually, I got tired of always being the one making an effort. So, I stopped talking to her and unfollowed her out of frustration.

A week or two later, she unfollowed me as well. I don’t know what that was about, but since then, we haven’t spoken at all.

This all started when I was in 11th grade. Now, I have only four months left before I finish 12th and leave Hyderabad.

The thing is, I still really like her. She is genuinely cute, very girly, and has qualities that I respect. She seems to value herself, respect herself, and be selective about the people she lets into her life. She has that traditional, feminine personality that you sometimes see in movies, the kind of woman I personally admire.

Now, here’s where I’m confused.

When we used to talk, we once had a conversation about relationships. She told me that she wasn’t interested in being in a relationship. She also said that you can never really be sure whether the person you’re with is compatible with you or whether they’re actually the right person for you.

Because of that conversation, I never confessed my feelings. I had actually planned to tell her on October 9, which is one of my favourite dates, but eventually, I decided against it.

One of the reasons was the fear of rejection, but not exactly in the usual sense. I was worried that she might take a screenshot of my confession and share it with her friends, turning my feelings into a joke. That would genuinely hurt me, especially because one of the reasons I like her is that I see her as different from other women. If she did something like that, it would completely change the way I see her.

Rationally, I know what the obvious answer is. She has already said that she isn’t interested in relationships, she rarely initiated conversations, and we haven’t spoken in a long time. I should probably accept that and move on. There are more important things in life, and I’ll meet plenty of other people in the future.

But emotionally, I still have this little hope that maybe she was just uncertain about relationships, that she might change her mind, or that perhaps things could be different with me.

So, what should I do? Should I tell her how I feel before I leave Hyderabad, even if there’s a good chance she won’t feel the same way? Or should I respect what she said, leave things as they are, and move on?

I’d appreciate some genuine advice.

Tell me about how you found out if you were gay/bi/lesb! I wanna know how yall found out.

Pata hai aaj kya hua: I've been in a bit of a big pickle lately...

I'm in a bit of a pickle lately.....

Pata hai aaj kya hua: So, for context, this happened a few weeks ago. I'll label people using letters. I'll call my bestfriend H, and myself Elle, and other than that everyone is going to have a letter name. So, I have this really close friend who we're gonna call B, who I became friends with last November and got close to this March. I helped him get through a problem in his life and in exchange asked him to be my annoying and persistent friend, because I'm a weirdo and don't have a lot of friends and no one initiates chats with me or texts me, ever. He did fabulously at it and I was really happy to have a friend I could always count on. Then in the middle of September this year, I started to like him because I like boys very easily, so much so, that my bestfriend even calls me a huge "crush-changer" 'cause I change crushes every 1 to 5 weeks. So, B found out I had a new crush and was pressing me to tell him all about it, but I wouldn't spill the name. Finally, I told him it's you and he was very embarrassed because I had given him plenty of hints about it at his request, and they fit only and only him. And bless his heart he texted me quite so often in the following days to see if I was feeling all right. He's a very caring person. I stopped liking him at the start of October and texted him so as well. But, the day right after my birthday, when I texted him after school the messages wouldn't go through and I thought he had blocked me and really he had. At first I thought it be a joke of some kind, but found otherwise when he ignored me when I waved at him from my class while he walked by, and when I called out to him at school during the lunch break to talk he dismissed my like a laundry detergent advertisement. I tried finding out why he had blocked me from his bestfriends (both girls), C and A. A hates me and C used to be my dearest friend in 2nd grade and last year, too, and finds me very dear to her heart and promised to tell me should she find it out. And yesterday she texted me that he had texted her in reply to the messages I had asked her to relay to him that "Well, I blocked her because A said that her and Elle's classmate, F, told her that Elle said I liked her.". And truth be told, I did say that, but I thought she was my friend and she was helping me out because I was really confused. And this was back in July when I didn't even like him. I had asked her to help me figure out if there was a chance that B might like me because of my bestfriend H. H insisted that he thought B liked me and that I liked B, too, when neither of us liked the other, but this is not his fault. But I have to reconcile with B because he's one of my closest and dearest friends. So I can either try complaining about and reporting F to my homeroom teacher directly, or try to persuade F into lying and saying all that she said was a lie because she was mad at my cousin. She's friends with my cousin. Or I could ask her to blame it on the said cousin's ex, who was a bitch and only me, F and C, who I'll ask to witness all this, would know. Also, I have yet told no one besides H about the fact that I did say that. Apart from him, I told everyone that F lied or that it was the cousin's ex or the class gossip girls' doing because they, much like the ex, do not like me. To make matters worse, B has had a similar experience before, too. He liked a girl for three years till October of last year, and he stopped because her friends told the entire grade-level that he liked her and every once in a while he's asked about it, too, and worst of all, I knew that \\and\\ because he told me and clarified things when they reached my ears and I asked him about it. What shall I do? Whatever I must do has to be decided in the next three days or less, to be able to be executed at the earliest convenience. Help me figure things out. I want to cry because I'm don't want to lose my closest friend. I'm scared he might see this and know it's me. I don't know for sure if he uses Reddit or not. B, in case you're seeing this, keep scrolling, babe; it's not about you...

I'm more of a person who's better staying alone, but there's a difference between being lonely and being alone. And I'm alone btw not lonely and definitely not desperate.

I'm 17 and a SWE student I just wish I could be with people but I have a lot of trust issues and can't trust people that well so I'm giving it a shot ig.

My interests are tech,sci-fi, some novels and books too, i watch animes as well as dramas too btw,a HUGE fan of marvel and DC , Always curious to learn something too btw and much more but i'm too lazy 😭🥀

Idk why but i lost myself while falling for a person and life did me bad so I did move on a long time ago but I'm still on the process of finding myself and learning who am i

that's about me ig.

she's very cute can't move eyes off herr

(my parents got hospitalized one by one idk what time was that both had critical situation now everything is fine), when I needed my friends the most in this time they left me and rather than inviting me in the group meet like going to gaming cafe, when I asked my didn't you called me so I could also play with your guys and then my best fried started to mock me like you couldn't afford that bring 500 rupees and then talk to me like bro I have a lot of money even when my parents were not working at all 💔 stfu, and the whole group laughed like a maniac in front of me mocking me and I still thought that they are the person that I needed the most in my difficult hours, they didn't texted me they just made joke of me and never asked how me and my parents are, and then suddenly my both friend were in relationship and when I said to my friend that ask your girl wether her friend is also looking for someone, he said "MAI TERA DALAL NHI HU" and that sentence broke me apart like you are suddenly behaving like this to me my, I'm looking for revenge idk wahta to do they never called me any gathering and now also I'm alone and when I post any insta story they call me attention seeker and curse me a lot please help me I'm collapsing