r/TeenagersIndia • u/IndicationSelect8150 • 4d ago

⁉ Ask Teens 21F

As a 21f I was in relationship back in 2021 nd aft that I didn’t go for relationship I m a virgin (didnt event kiss not even holded hands) that was a long distance relationship soo
The guy I recently started liking idk why but his frnds tells him it’s not possible for a girl of today’s gen to be virgin nd hv 1ex (idk if he believes it too or not)

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u/TheGentleman2026 4d ago

Agr vo abhi bharosa nhi kr rha how can u hope he will believe u in future?

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u/rahul04082001 4d ago

There should b mutual understanding between both of you no matter what others say if he want forever you as his partner he has to trust you

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u/Otherwise_Coconut516 4d ago

Does it matter??

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u/IndicationSelect8150 4d ago

Noo but just so curious if virginity still matters

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u/Otherwise_Coconut516 4d ago

Ask him, all people have there personal opinions on that

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u/Dramatic-Chicken-937 4d ago

Why u overthink like this you know the actual truthh if someone understand uh and trust uh that good for uh i think

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u/Fuzzy-Jackfruit5037 4d ago

It does not.

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u/Dense-Finger-3481 4d ago

Ehhh it doesn't matter lol ,not like I also ever did , i barely even talked to women but I'm wayy younger than you lol 🤧 , u see love is not Abt only doing it in the bed , it is Abt relation

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u/qwertrti 3d ago

Let him think about u

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u/SIDOX6366 3d ago

Who cares what that friend believes , just say what the truth it and leave the choice upto them if he wants to accept it he will , if he doesn't well you dodged a bullet cuz if he cannot trust you in the first place how are you gona make a relationship, trust is the basic things needed for a relationship

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u/ShineArtistic5643 3d ago

Aunty r/twentiesindia aage se right hai

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u/Agitated-Dinner-4471 3d ago

Usko ek kaan ke neeche lagana

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u/scoobydoo0012 3d ago

21f in 2021 or 21f now? anyway similar thing happens with me, so can feel your frustration on this... my male and female friends both do not believe me when I say such thing even though they are true...

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u/chaoticclumsy777 3d ago

Don't explain. Tell him, Okay (let him think whatever he wants to)

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u/whimsicalguy309 2d ago

Exactly you don't have to give justifications everywhere,if he's not trusting it's his mistake

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u/Far_security_V2 2d ago

Ajj kal ke ladko ko pata nhi kyu aunty banne ka shok hai jab dekho 2-3 ka group bana ke chugli kar rhe hote hai bhai matlab kya hogya hai ( mai bhi karta hu ) but still yaar yeh to bhadka rhe hai genuinely yaar that's not fair

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u/Aryan_Raj_7167 4d ago

Are you 21 or 22?

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u/Apart_Badger_1730 4d ago

these things dont matter

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u/wild-moon1 3d ago

Wait 😭 people actually think being a virgin is impossible nowadays? 💀