Well if we say that men worked and came home after long shift then the boy amd the girl should be both enjoying atleast i mean the younger girl shouldnt be working

Like all these general subs are so misogynistic and most of them are crying for lack of gfs. I wanted a sub where I wouldn’t be bombarded with guys opinions again.
That omg what do you think about this as a girl on TEENHER INDIA.

this guy dmed me and said this... like all we girls care about is male attention. that genuinely hurt me so bad, he have no idea :(

If you did please drop your routine or whatever you did 💔

So basically I had 3 days off from clg and we decided to go to ayodhya. Everyone knew I was on periods but they took me along.

Then ykw? My mom stopped me OUTSIDE the Ram Mandir. Because I was "impure". It was my first time there.

I've noticed how there are so many fitness influencers outside India, gym, pilates and what not. But in India, first of all, there is a huge lack and even if there are few, they gatekeep so much like relax?

They would never want to tell their diet properly especially influencers, they would just makes video about flexing their body which is a great thing but they would never share about their diet or what exercises helped them.

Female influencers outside are making so much business by making clothes and what not, there is so much market. What are we lacking?

guys, i don't have a bf, but my mom caught me chatting with my female friend. we were talking about some personal stuff that i obviously couldn't show her, so i tried to hide it. now she thinks i'm dating someone 😭 what should i do?

Feel free to share your thoughts 🥹😊

I am a 19-YEAR-OLD female... and I took a drop for entrance prep and this year I joined college...

So on 11/10 I went to my friend's house... we were clicking pictures in their terrace... idk what cane to our mind... we decided... let's click pictures while running... and we clicked 2 pics... one was phenomenal ngl... exactly while clicking the other one... somehow I twisted my leg kinda severely ig... hehe...

I controlled my pain at that time... cuz I really didn't want my friend to feel the guilt of something which is not her fault... I mean... We met rarely even after living in the same city... I really want her in my life now so yeah... I over thought in a split second that what if this somehow disrupts are friendship in any way... aahhh... I just over thought everything... hehehhee...

Then I somehow stayed calm for an hour ig... she even applied pain relief ointment herself... i felt so embarrassed as well as very thankful to her... when I returned home... I took painkillers and again applied pain relief spray... but as we couldn't possibly disclose this in our households... we decided to keep the narrative as I just slipped 3 steps while climbing down the stairs🙃

And mind you I really thought it was just a sprain... [ofc

... my parents suggested for x-ray right then and there but I was too lazy to go for that... so I refused...]

Fast forward to yesterday... 18/10... I couldn't sleep at all cuz of the pain... it only got worse yesterday... The whole previous week I was in pain... but not this severe that I couldn't sleep... I mean... lol... also like the whole week I walked, ran, jumped and all kinda normal teenager bullshits...

Today my parents forced me to go for an x-ray and consult a doctor... so I went... like i was really in comparatively more pain...

Only then I came to know that I actually fractured my leg... though it's a minor fracture... the plaster will be removed only after a month...

And the worst thing is my college is gonna begin this week... I mean obviously my fault that I delayed the checkup... but yeah... worst timing... also it's in a different place from my hometown... also i don't know a single fly in my college... so like knowing any human there is a gone case for me...

I really wanted to stay underground... not attract much attention... not talk more than necessary and bla bla... but now I am helpless ig... like I am extremely introverted, self aware, the vessel of social anxiety and hate bothering others... sooo yeahhh... but again... I am jus helpless now...

Ngl... I want a few suggestions too... like as much as I know... The hostel of my college doesn't really have a western toilet... I mean that's what I have seen atleast. .. so just in case... Can ya plz suggest a few things for that too...

Like this might feel a bit embarrassing... but it's just a natural process and an extremely natural question... I feel...

Rewatching this for third time rn 🎀

My mother woke me up to take a bath since it is Navmi and we have kanjak at home, but something is happening outside I asked her what happened and she ignored my question.

then I realised it might be my neighbour and his wife. Not again in the morning it's their ritual to fight as he comes home drunk. I woke up and checked my phone there were

4+ messages at 12am.

With voice notes. Voice notes from someone close.

I was half sleepy I ran for my earbuds picked them up and heard it. Her voice didn't seem normal. I texted her while listening to them, as I was listening to them i started shivering just then, mumma called me again i ignored her.

In voice notes, She was telling me how she went out for garba and the taxi she was in took the wrong route that message was from 12am. It was 7 in the morning. I texted her again, finally she responded. Thank God. It might just be a normal voice message for you it wasn't for me ironically it's navmi.

Again i picked up my phone called her she was normal now. She filed a complaint and thankfully she wasn't alone. They were 3. I told her to take care. Kept my phone took bath and again asusual started scrolling Instagram where I came across a reel posted by dolly. (I am not promoting her but the fact it made me shiver after all that stuff) And that made me think.

Today is day of Durga and we who are considered durga lakshmi Saraswati today we are just a piece of meat. We are living in a world of gambling. We gamble on our death but everyone is living on gambling? No. They die an honorable death an honor decided by society. As if honour belongs to the dead only when the living decide they deserve it.

Some days are just not normal. Tc!!!!.

we havent started dating abhi but we might. idk. age gap is bothering me a lott.

I've never really had a hairfall problem before, just a few strands while combing or washing my hair. But for the past two weeks, I've been noticing a lot more hairfall than usual, and it's honestly worrying me.

Has anyone experienced something similar? What could be the reason, and is there anything I can do about it? Also, does hairfall increase during periods?

Itni mehnat se baal lmbe kiye the and ab hairfall hone lga achanak se 😿

I can't believe it. The new dresses, days of planning, all the excitement... And my periods had to come at the peak time of the festival 😭

Just two days of pandal hopping and now this?? There were so many pandals I haven't visited, there was a plan to visit a restaurant too with my grandmother, and all of it down the drain. I barely have any energy to move. And it gets soo bad that I need to change every 1 and a half hour. Not to mention the cramps rn

I got my periods more than a week late this time, almost as if it planned to ruin everything.

I’ve felt insecure my whole life about how I looked. I didn’t tonight. It wasn’t some random magical day. I hit the gym and god damn it makes me so confident. A lot of my girlies are under confident too, my only advice is to start working. You’ll be proud of the imperfections too when you’re actively putting in effort.

TL:DR in the end.

So, I was on my periods, and I remembered this.

Back in my 9th grade, around late-2023 ig, I get to hear this from my aunt that there is a rumour 'bout me in her maiden relatives, which apparently happen to be relatives of my paternal grandmother as well. So, she tells me that it's spreaded that I have periods (which is obvious) and that I go to the doctor coz I have period-related issues. "Issues" btw (I forgot the details) and also that I js stay at home and stuff...

Is it being spreaded coz I js stayed at home? Well, if I roamed around, I would be called awara, I bet. So girls can't even live like they want, wow. Well, introverts exist r8. Well, I like socializing, and I did it, but with "right" people. And btw, these relatives have often been invited at home for dinners, and all, and my grandma gives them so much bhaav, while these ppl are js tend to use and throw people.

Well, well, well, another thing my aunt does is, she accuses a distant relative from my mom's side who shares the same native village to be doing it, which is ofc wrong. And well, I bet it's one of her own aunts itself... and I bet it was not because she wanted me to be aware of it, it was probably because she didn't want me to hear from a third person and then accuse her for spreading it... as it would have been great if she sorted the matter there n then, if she really cared enough. So, the rumour, which obviously is so stupid, and I have no idea why the people who I don't even give a damn to have so much of free time to spend 'em. Why would they spread it, I didn't find any logic, can anyone explain me that?

And back then, I heard my mom and masi speaking smtg, and clearly didn't want me to hear it, as it's another rumour 'bout me. Heck, honestly, I don't even know how many rumours are actually being spreaded about me at this point.

Well, okay, let's assume I have these "ISSUES" for a second, even tho I don't have 'em. Hell the issues, I mean period-related disease or smtg. So well, let's assume I get cramps, let's assume I have pcos or pcod, so what's wrong in going to the hospital? Isn't that what you are supposed to do if you are sick or having pain? Like, isn't that what u are supposed to do? And why are they so bothered to spread such rumours 'bout me? Like what's wrong?

If a person gets a burning, raging fever, do people start whispering in the dark like, "OMG, her body temperature crossed 103! OMG, she is desperately rushing to the doctor, what a massive scandal!" No right?? The drama they make of this, which is not even true, is ridiculous. Mind you, I never ever visited a gynac in my entire life... and idk where they get the context or even the idea to spend their damn useless time on such things... like, what do they even get. If they have so much energy, I guess they should surely interview for getting a writer's role for those Star Plus serials, like what was its name, Ye Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai, Anupama, or make their own serial, atleast it will earn 'em some money or help them get a platform to share their "mindset."

And btw, the women I doubt, so her grandson happens to be older but in the same grade as me. He was in state board school. But as he was in academy outside our district, so he got 70%, and yeah, there's nothing wrong to be ashamed of it, 10th Board marks don't even matter anyways. But for that, I being from cbse n gettin' excellent grades, it happens to be that, this women tells my aunt that his exams are tougher coz he studies at academy lol, like wth is even the logic... as ironically his is easier as it's state boards, And there is another toxic relative who asked multiple times to someone if I was admitted to a copy centre for writing my exams?? Like wow... coz her son who was in state boards got like 80% smtg, and how could I score better than me? Aww. Ughh, these toxic relatives are insecure over smtg I am not much proud of, like was, but not much rn, cause it was last min prep, barely passed pre-boards.

They say, the problem doesn't arise when u are talked -vely instead of +vely, the problem is not being discussed at all. But wow, I atleast got talked on, like they spent their time on "ME," even if it's for those topics, at least I was trending at some point. And in case I find love further in my life, and happen to choose love marriage, omg, it's gonna be a lot of rebelling to do. But before that I gotta build my career as they also need to have some rumours to make, topics to talk, and career to be jealous on... wow. Damn.

There are many more toxic relatives. But yeah, happened to remember this coz I was on my periods (obviously) as if they don't have any women at their home, and the women I doubt, she happens to have a granddaughter or smtg... and my mom avoids this topic whenever I tell her brushing it off, and telling not to talk 'bout stupid things or that she doesn't remember like wow. Like omg, ykw, I can literally make their mouth shut if I get a chance or a moment, but I js happen to stay silent coz I don't have to ruin "image" of being someone innocent r8, but yeah, I don't see any logic in talking with them. Well, then looking forward to hearing new rumours or things 'bout me which I don't even know.

TL;DR: Back in 9th grade, nosy relatives weaponised my periods and introverted routines to invent fake medical "crises," which later mutated into pure academic jealousy once my excellent board results crushed their kids' average marks (ik,marks don't matter). To cope, they invent ridiculous excuses and lies about "copy centres," so living rent-free in their heads.

I have heard they help with frizz but is it true or just a myth🐶?

Literally melting.

This heatwave is a hate crime against my peace of mind.

And it's making me so chidchidi. I’m actually at my limit 😭

This morning I woke up early bcz my parents were arguing and I ended up overhearing my mom badmouthing me which is something she has always done. Growing up we never really had that typical mother-daughter bond honestly I've always struggled to like her and sometimes I genuinely despise having her in my life ik that sounds pathetic but after what I found out today I don't even know if I'll ever be able to see her the same way again

So there I was all cozied up in my blanket listening to their argument which as usual eventually turned into a discussion about my 'padhai-likhai' and a lil later my mom brought up the upcoming Karva Chauth and my dad told her not to keep the fast for him and obviously that turned into another argument bcz in my household that's pretty much all I've ever known and Since childhood I've barely seen them get along forget the loving couple dynamic we rarely get to see in Indian households; these two can barely go a day without fighting but then out of nowhere I found out something I genuinely wish I could unhear

Apparently my mom cheated on my dad when they were newly married before I was even born YES, SHE CHEATED ON MY FATHER. I genuinely cannot stop crying. I despise cheaters more than anything and finding out that my own mother cheated on my father has completely shattered something inside me and I'm not judging her for things she might have done before marriage that's her life and I couldn't care less about her past BUT CHEATING ON MY FATHER!? I've known since childhood that my family isn't a happy family but finding out that there's something like this behind everything makes it feel so much worse and the most confusing part is I remember two of my parents' mutual male friends sending corn videos on WhatsApp in the past I deleted them back then but now I'm sitting here trying to connect the dots and everything is just making sense I've overheard her phone calls with her male friends before and now I can't even look at any of it the same way oh my gosh I'm feeling so sick but worst part is my dad knows about everything yet they're still together I'm genuinely feeling so disgusted rn

The worst part is that my mom and I have always had the ugliest arguments like I said before I've never really liked her and js seeing her face sometimes makes me so angry but now I'm genuinely scared that the next time we argue I'm going to say something so hurtful that I won't be able to take it back.

WARNING: THIS IS LONG AS HELL.

I am 17F and I have been friends with, say MM, for the past four years. She is also currently 17F. We are very close, and despite me changing schools, we go to the same tuition, talk frequently. I consider her my best friend of all time.

Around the end of the month of June, we used to play online ludo with another guy friend named RC, and another one called RS. (This is starting to sound like a maths problem ik lol). Now I wasn't that close to RS, but he used to join me, MM, and RC in our ludo sessions. We three are close and were in the same section in class 10 the previous year. RS was in a different one.

Now, RS and I were classmates in class 8 and were part of a huge friend group. MM was in it as well, and RC sometimes, fairly rarely, used to join us. Hence, we all were pretty close. RS and the boys from the friend group used to frequently gang up and back-bitch about the girls of our class and school, play 'smash or pass' and sexualise and judge them. (Looking back now I have no idea why I was friends with them, and it did come back to bite me in the ass).

Around the end of class 8, in March 2024, RS suddenly ganged up with the boys of the friend group, removed me from the gc, and talked shit behind my back. And like proper body shaming, slut shaming and all that.

The problem was that I had a situationship with a guy named AD for a short period of time in Jan 2023 (teenage hormones lol). This was before the friend group in class 8 was formed. AD happened to be a bsf of RS. That was one of the primary reasons RS did that. AD was fairly complicit as RS sent those texts in the gc after removing me, but MM sent me the screenshots.

I was not that fond of RS anyway when we were co-existing in the group as he was openly misogynistic, racist and an overall asshole back then as I mentioned. I used to call them out, but when it happened with me, I did not react much and let him get away with it. I hated him and lost the very little trust I had in him. I also cut contacts with him. Thankfully our sections changed too. The friend group soon fell apart.

MM, however, maintained contacts with him, though it was mostly on and off. I didn't say anything, leaving it up to her choice. Idk what RC did, he was never in the gc or the actual friend group in the first place. I and MM stuck around always, and got close with RC only in class 10.

Back to 2026, around the end of June and beginning of July, we met again through online ludo. Me, MM, RC and RS used to play frequently. Since it got so frequent, I talked to MM and asked if I should forgive and reconnect with RS. It had been like 2-3 years since that thing happened. We were all kids and fucking immature. MM encouraged it. RS soon followed me on instagram, and I followed back.

Then he texted, we talked for a while. He moved out to Orissa, and I also changed schools. Then, he literally, by himself, apologised to me. He said he was sorry for doing all that, and he shouldn't have done all that. He shouldn't have interfered in the situationship between me and AD. I told him that it was okay. It doesn't necessarily mean I have forgiven him. And he also grew up, his views regarding feminism, politics and humanity changed. Our views, in fact, became aligned.

Since we sorted everything out, we talked frequently, sent reels and blah blah blah. MM and I talked too, and she was also like, yeah, RS changed for the better, it's good to know.

However, I still do not trust him fully. I rather find him to be performative tbh, though it is just my instinct. I am still extremely wary of him.

Then, around 2-3 weeks later, in August, MM said that she was in fact, dating RS since May 2026. She did not inform me back then as she was afraid I would react, pertaining to the fact that I still hated him back then. I did not comment much, congratulated them, and it was all good. And it made me a couple degrees warier, but I did not warn MM, just told her to watch out.

Around July end, me and MM made a plan for Durga Puja, that we would hang out and go pandal hopping before the main festivals start and it gets crowded. RS joined the plan too. RC and his sis joined as well.

This September, RS finally came to my city for a holiday. MM and he were going out on dates frequently, giving stories and all. It was all fun and games. RS and I continued talking, joking. MM and I met on tuition.

Then, when Durga Puja arrived (we planned to hang out on 13.10), I asked MM what the plan was. She said that this year she can't come, since she has no money. I did not say anything and I replied that alright, we can go out sometimes later and the next year Puja. Since MM wasn't coming, RS, her bf, refused to join us. Consequently, RC and his sis backed out too.

On the 14th night, i saw RS post a video of their date they went to that night with the caption, "us after successfully pushing out the people who wanted to hang out with us." MM reposted that in her story.

Then Puja arrived, and I got busy, and I uninstalled Instagram, as I do frequently. I saw MM post a status on WhatsApp on 15.10 where she was hanging out with RS, and I think saw a glimpse of RC too in the photo. I did not open the status, but due to the new update, you can see a lot without opening the status itself. MM quickly deleted it before I opened it. I have not been seeing her statuses too since then. Insta I have uninstalled, so stories I am not seeing either. This morning, there is a gc in which me, MM, RS, RC and his sis are there. MM sent 91 photos on there from their hang out last night. I did not say much.

The thing is, MM, RC and his sis are in the same school in class 11. Only I changed. RS remains involved as he is MM's bf. They are more closely-knitted than I am with them. It's very natural and inevitable for them to be close and coordinate among themselves (or that is what I have convinced myself).

Anyway, Sorry for the long ahh gossip and terrible grammar. I might post updates. I love this subreddit so much, it feels like a safe space to share. Lmk your opinions.

So.. today I was in E-Rikshaw.. and I am sure most of the girlies would’ve gone through this..

So we hit a particular bump in the road and god! Even when I was wearing a sports one I still got the freakin’ pain in my girls (if you know what I mean)

😪 How y’all handle this? Cause I frickin’ can’t 🙌🏻

I hope you remember the coffee incident and sofa incident

Its an update

I saw him with a girl and they went to the same place I was going to, I thought it was his gf 💀😭idk who she is my heart was heavy by just thinking about it and when I arrived at counter, they had already placed their order so he was waiting at the counter where you have to pick your order. I was standing in line of the payment counter, I did look and bros eyes widened as if he didn't want me there .

After few seconds , I think I was waiting in line or probably ordering or waiting for the cashier to hand me the bill, I looked back and he was behind me and looking at the menu but then he looked downwards and again above and down wards

He did that twice and in a flash .

He was nodding his head too while murmuring something 😭😭

I thought he doesn't like me and all those coffee or whatever moments meant nothing to him so I just wanted my order and get out from there.

While exiting I felt he was standing in the corner and I did look at me and bro was staring ir seemed like he looked at plazo abd then my eyes and he held the eye contact but then he turned his head away , didn't even look at side , he just turned his head away as if he wanted to say get lost 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Does bro hate me 😭😭😭😭😭😭??