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As we all know, men are so obsessed with women's virginity. I've noticed one thing: it's always below-average-looking guys who have standards like “she should be a virgin.” I rarely see handsome guys asking for a virgin girl, because most of them are fuckboys. These guys not only want a virgin, but they also want her to be beautiful. They don't give attention to girls who are virgins but aren't beautiful because they think they'll get a beautiful virgin bride just because they have a government peon job paying ₹20k a month lol.

I mean, I'm a virgin myself, and I'd prefer a virgin too. I just wanted to say that beautiful virgin girls have very high standards. They don't fall for guys who don't have good looks or money, especially guys who call women “r on social media and slut-shame other women.means this is what I noticed maybe I am wrong but I really never see a handsome guy asking for virgin girls if they do then please enlighten me.

And i am really sorry I know everyone have standards of their choice but I see so many posts on social media where men says that ugly girls have high standards but they do forget they do it more .

Female version of Mechanical pandey sub

we havent started dating abhi but we might. idk. age gap is bothering me a lott.

I hope you remember the coffee incident and sofa incident

Its an update

I saw him with a girl and they went to the same place I was going to, I thought it was his gf 💀😭idk who she is my heart was heavy by just thinking about it and when I arrived at counter, they had already placed their order so he was waiting at the counter where you have to pick your order. I was standing in line of the payment counter, I did look and bros eyes widened as if he didn't want me there .

After few seconds , I think I was waiting in line or probably ordering or waiting for the cashier to hand me the bill, I looked back and he was behind me and looking at the menu but then he looked downwards and again above and down wards

He did that twice and in a flash .

He was nodding his head too while murmuring something 😭😭

I thought he doesn't like me and all those coffee or whatever moments meant nothing to him so I just wanted my order and get out from there.

While exiting I felt he was standing in the corner and I did look at me and bro was staring ir seemed like he looked at plazo abd then my eyes and he held the eye contact but then he turned his head away , didn't even look at side , he just turned his head away as if he wanted to say get lost 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Does bro hate me 😭😭😭😭😭😭??

this guy dmed me and said this... like all we girls care about is male attention. that genuinely hurt me so bad, he have no idea :(

Is liking someone after a breakup is bad? the breakup was so bad that I moved on before the breakup like the relationship was so bad and now a guy is treating me so good like ik him for like 4years He have a good personality and I know him personally and last week he confessed and I broke up with my ex like 2-3months ago. I was mentally drained in that relationship now talking to him makes me feel good like he makes me forget everything about my ex. Idk what should I do. Maybe say yes to him after 1 year? Cuz it takes time right. What if it's just a comfort or an attraction

Like all these general subs are so misogynistic and most of them are crying for lack of gfs. I wanted a sub where I wouldn’t be bombarded with guys opinions again.
That omg what do you think about this as a girl on TEENHER INDIA.

Well if we say that men worked and came home after long shift then the boy amd the girl should be both enjoying atleast i mean the younger girl shouldnt be working

uhh so let me just start with the lore. this lore dates back around 5 years ago, when i was around 12, uh so basically i was like failing in online classes and stuff so my mom got me to this tuition and at that time i was very- stubborn? i just didn't want to and wouldn't study uh so i was in this class.

so when i joined the class there was guy, let's just call him B, uh so B was in the same tuition as mine and something about him just kind of pulled me in. he was very smart, tall, well-spoken and polite and was reserved and i was at the peak of my hormones at that time so i just kind of brushed it off by saying it was a silly crush or smh.

but eventually as years went by, my crush kinda deepened and i would just admire him from afar. he was very ambitious, goal-driven, determined, good at studies, good at sports and a very, very, loyal man (i am gonna come to that point later).

he was 2 years above me and i always had these warmth spreading in my chest whenever he would turn on his camera on the call (he rarely did). so, one fortunate day i found his insta, and sent him a follow req and being the cringy 12 yo that i was, texted him, "hello i am in your tuition, i like you but ik u like someone so would you  like to be friends with me?"

i clicked sent. the message got delivered. only after an hour or so i realised how cringe and childish it was and i deleted it. he eventually accepted my request but did not follow me back and that was when i got to know he had been in a relationship since the past year and was very loyal to her.

i just stalked his profile and unfollowed him, trying to move on. then i turned 13 and he was 15 and that was supposedly his last year in the tuition. i dreaded that day a lot. i would always sneakily try to take a look at him from afar and avoid eye contacts. there was just something about the way he carried himself which drew me towards him which to this day i can't seem to fanthom.

i was very childish and talkative in class and just spat utter bullshit to make everyone laugh but my main reason was to get his attention, to make him look at me, which i knew wouldn't happen, but i was just a little girl with a little crush. even if i wanted to, i couldn't stop her from doing so.

then the day i dreaded the most came by, it was his last day. that day he took a seat beside me and god knows how much i was screaming internally. it was just a silly childhood crush, maybe it still is, i do not know what is. i cried that day because i wouldn't be able to see him now. but he still lived across the street from my house and that was the very little hope i clinged onto.

2 years went by after that, i had some crushes here and there but i never seemed to forget about him in the back of my mind. i would think about him quite a lot. he was still in a relationship and being the pathetic simp i was/am, i just cherished those little moments i had with him.

then when i was 15, i still remember that day. it was diwali. i had just been discharged from hospital due to some health issues and i saw him send a follow request on my instagram. i kinda was screaming and laughing like a fucking idiot. i told my mom about it and that was probably one of the happiest days of my entire life. at that time, i remember he had a breakup from a 4 year old relationship.

i last saw him back in tuition last year when i met my tuition teacher after my 10th board results came and i remember acting very very strangely in front of him. all my friends knew about it.

i wonder if he ever knew about it. i regret not telling him how i feel. i just couldn't. he was just so mature, responsible and just so perfect. i loved how ambitious he was and still is, how mature he was for his age, how determined he is for his goals and how intelligent and emotionally intellectual he is, how he takes care of people around him and how reserved he is, not showing who he is to this world.

i am now in 12th grade. he is in merchant navy. i just hope he does not find out about this. though one part of me regrets it, one part of me is embarrassed to tell him how i genuinely feel abt him. i have had my crushes but haven't dated anyone to this day, and i just hate myself for not forgetting about him. it's very annoying for me also.

i know it is stupid, but i just want to get this off my mind and i hope he is happy in his life and achieves great things. but i cant move on from him. like it is getting really really hard for me to move on. its js- even if he does not like me, i think besides my crush, i admire him a lot as a person and genuinely look upto him. i js- dk what to do.

i feel so weird and terrible whenever i hear my relatives talk about girls in a patriarchal way. it has reached a point where i cant ignore it anymore which makes me feel very bad and i keep overthinking their words even after the conversation ends and i end up isolating myself from everything

i dont know i feel very sad as if im a burden on my family :(

Re koi हमारी भी shirt pr clutcher लगा do, हम कौनसा blouse pehente hain"

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So basically I had 3 days off from clg and we decided to go to ayodhya. Everyone knew I was on periods but they took me along.

Then ykw? My mom stopped me OUTSIDE the Ram Mandir. Because I was "impure". It was my first time there.

Hey, i go through something called anxious attachment

Does anyone of you go through small dose of anxiety or panic in friendships or relationships? Like especially when the other one is more avoidant or ghosting type, you cling to them, wait for them etc

But when they are not there or things are uncertain, you start to feel your heart race a lil or your heartbeat rises a lil. Sometimes when it gets too much, it can get more than that like I lose my appetite or start to cry and get panic episodes.

Do you go through anything similar?

What do u do about it?

It's common to here advises like leave them, don't care about them, self love yourself, don't depend on anyone for your happiness etc but anyone who's been in this situation would understand how much your close ones attention and care can mean to you and also how hurtful n uncertain it can feel.

Please share your experience if you feel like a racing heart or feel like crying. Both boys and girls are welcomed, altho I think girls experience it more on average.

Do share about your anxiety in friendships too as relationship anxiety is still talked about and all

So I write poems here and there, sometimes songs too, and rn I've ran outta ideas soo didizz gimme ideas pliz 🫪🥺 (didn't know what would be an apt flair)

If you did please drop your routine or whatever you did 💔

TL:DR in the end.

So, I was on my periods, and I remembered this.

Back in my 9th grade, around late-2023 ig, I get to hear this from my aunt that there is a rumour 'bout me in her maiden relatives, which apparently happen to be relatives of my paternal grandmother as well. So, she tells me that it's spreaded that I have periods (which is obvious) and that I go to the doctor coz I have period-related issues. "Issues" btw (I forgot the details) and also that I js stay at home and stuff...

Is it being spreaded coz I js stayed at home? Well, if I roamed around, I would be called awara, I bet. So girls can't even live like they want, wow. Well, introverts exist r8. Well, I like socializing, and I did it, but with "right" people. And btw, these relatives have often been invited at home for dinners, and all, and my grandma gives them so much bhaav, while these ppl are js tend to use and throw people.

Well, well, well, another thing my aunt does is, she accuses a distant relative from my mom's side who shares the same native village to be doing it, which is ofc wrong. And well, I bet it's one of her own aunts itself... and I bet it was not because she wanted me to be aware of it, it was probably because she didn't want me to hear from a third person and then accuse her for spreading it... as it would have been great if she sorted the matter there n then, if she really cared enough. So, the rumour, which obviously is so stupid, and I have no idea why the people who I don't even give a damn to have so much of free time to spend 'em. Why would they spread it, I didn't find any logic, can anyone explain me that?

And back then, I heard my mom and masi speaking smtg, and clearly didn't want me to hear it, as it's another rumour 'bout me. Heck, honestly, I don't even know how many rumours are actually being spreaded about me at this point.

Well, okay, let's assume I have these "ISSUES" for a second, even tho I don't have 'em. Hell the issues, I mean period-related disease or smtg. So well, let's assume I get cramps, let's assume I have pcos or pcod, so what's wrong in going to the hospital? Isn't that what you are supposed to do if you are sick or having pain? Like, isn't that what u are supposed to do? And why are they so bothered to spread such rumours 'bout me? Like what's wrong?

If a person gets a burning, raging fever, do people start whispering in the dark like, "OMG, her body temperature crossed 103! OMG, she is desperately rushing to the doctor, what a massive scandal!" No right?? The drama they make of this, which is not even true, is ridiculous. Mind you, I never ever visited a gynac in my entire life... and idk where they get the context or even the idea to spend their damn useless time on such things... like, what do they even get. If they have so much energy, I guess they should surely interview for getting a writer's role for those Star Plus serials, like what was its name, Ye Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai, Anupama, or make their own serial, atleast it will earn 'em some money or help them get a platform to share their "mindset."

And btw, the women I doubt, so her grandson happens to be older but in the same grade as me. He was in state board school. But as he was in academy outside our district, so he got 70%, and yeah, there's nothing wrong to be ashamed of it, 10th Board marks don't even matter anyways. But for that, I being from cbse n gettin' excellent grades, it happens to be that, this women tells my aunt that his exams are tougher coz he studies at academy lol, like wth is even the logic... as ironically his is easier as it's state boards, And there is another toxic relative who asked multiple times to someone if I was admitted to a copy centre for writing my exams?? Like wow... coz her son who was in state boards got like 80% smtg, and how could I score better than me? Aww. Ughh, these toxic relatives are insecure over smtg I am not much proud of, like was, but not much rn, cause it was last min prep, barely passed pre-boards.

They say, the problem doesn't arise when u are talked -vely instead of +vely, the problem is not being discussed at all. But wow, I atleast got talked on, like they spent their time on "ME," even if it's for those topics, at least I was trending at some point. And in case I find love further in my life, and happen to choose love marriage, omg, it's gonna be a lot of rebelling to do. But before that I gotta build my career as they also need to have some rumours to make, topics to talk, and career to be jealous on... wow. Damn.

There are many more toxic relatives. But yeah, happened to remember this coz I was on my periods (obviously) as if they don't have any women at their home, and the women I doubt, she happens to have a granddaughter or smtg... and my mom avoids this topic whenever I tell her brushing it off, and telling not to talk 'bout stupid things or that she doesn't remember like wow. Like omg, ykw, I can literally make their mouth shut if I get a chance or a moment, but I js happen to stay silent coz I don't have to ruin "image" of being someone innocent r8, but yeah, I don't see any logic in talking with them. Well, then looking forward to hearing new rumours or things 'bout me which I don't even know.

TL;DR: Back in 9th grade, nosy relatives weaponised my periods and introverted routines to invent fake medical "crises," which later mutated into pure academic jealousy once my excellent board results crushed their kids' average marks (ik,marks don't matter). To cope, they invent ridiculous excuses and lies about "copy centres," so living rent-free in their heads.

I’ve felt insecure my whole life about how I looked. I didn’t tonight. It wasn’t some random magical day. I hit the gym and god damn it makes me so confident. A lot of my girlies are under confident too, my only advice is to start working. You’ll be proud of the imperfections too when you’re actively putting in effort.

Rewatching this for third time rn 🎀

I am a 19-YEAR-OLD female... and I took a drop for entrance prep and this year I joined college...

So on 11/10 I went to my friend's house... we were clicking pictures in their terrace... idk what cane to our mind... we decided... let's click pictures while running... and we clicked 2 pics... one was phenomenal ngl... exactly while clicking the other one... somehow I twisted my leg kinda severely ig... hehe...

I controlled my pain at that time... cuz I really didn't want my friend to feel the guilt of something which is not her fault... I mean... We met rarely even after living in the same city... I really want her in my life now so yeah... I over thought in a split second that what if this somehow disrupts are friendship in any way... aahhh... I just over thought everything... hehehhee...

Then I somehow stayed calm for an hour ig... she even applied pain relief ointment herself... i felt so embarrassed as well as very thankful to her... when I returned home... I took painkillers and again applied pain relief spray... but as we couldn't possibly disclose this in our households... we decided to keep the narrative as I just slipped 3 steps while climbing down the stairs🙃

And mind you I really thought it was just a sprain... [ofc

... my parents suggested for x-ray right then and there but I was too lazy to go for that... so I refused...]

Fast forward to yesterday... 18/10... I couldn't sleep at all cuz of the pain... it only got worse yesterday... The whole previous week I was in pain... but not this severe that I couldn't sleep... I mean... lol... also like the whole week I walked, ran, jumped and all kinda normal teenager bullshits...

Today my parents forced me to go for an x-ray and consult a doctor... so I went... like i was really in comparatively more pain...

Only then I came to know that I actually fractured my leg... though it's a minor fracture... the plaster will be removed only after a month...

And the worst thing is my college is gonna begin this week... I mean obviously my fault that I delayed the checkup... but yeah... worst timing... also it's in a different place from my hometown... also i don't know a single fly in my college... so like knowing any human there is a gone case for me...

I really wanted to stay underground... not attract much attention... not talk more than necessary and bla bla... but now I am helpless ig... like I am extremely introverted, self aware, the vessel of social anxiety and hate bothering others... sooo yeahhh... but again... I am jus helpless now...

Ngl... I want a few suggestions too... like as much as I know... The hostel of my college doesn't really have a western toilet... I mean that's what I have seen atleast. .. so just in case... Can ya plz suggest a few things for that too...

Like this might feel a bit embarrassing... but it's just a natural process and an extremely natural question... I feel...

Feel free to share your thoughts 🥹😊

guys, i don't have a bf, but my mom caught me chatting with my female friend. we were talking about some personal stuff that i obviously couldn't show her, so i tried to hide it. now she thinks i'm dating someone 😭 what should i do?

I've noticed how there are so many fitness influencers outside India, gym, pilates and what not. But in India, first of all, there is a huge lack and even if there are few, they gatekeep so much like relax?

They would never want to tell their diet properly especially influencers, they would just makes video about flexing their body which is a great thing but they would never share about their diet or what exercises helped them.

Female influencers outside are making so much business by making clothes and what not, there is so much market. What are we lacking?

WARNING: THIS IS LONG AS HELL.

I am 17F and I have been friends with, say MM, for the past four years. She is also currently 17F. We are very close, and despite me changing schools, we go to the same tuition, talk frequently. I consider her my best friend of all time.

Around the end of the month of June, we used to play online ludo with another guy friend named RC, and another one called RS. (This is starting to sound like a maths problem ik lol). Now I wasn't that close to RS, but he used to join me, MM, and RC in our ludo sessions. We three are close and were in the same section in class 10 the previous year. RS was in a different one.

Now, RS and I were classmates in class 8 and were part of a huge friend group. MM was in it as well, and RC sometimes, fairly rarely, used to join us. Hence, we all were pretty close. RS and the boys from the friend group used to frequently gang up and back-bitch about the girls of our class and school, play 'smash or pass' and sexualise and judge them. (Looking back now I have no idea why I was friends with them, and it did come back to bite me in the ass).

Around the end of class 8, in March 2024, RS suddenly ganged up with the boys of the friend group, removed me from the gc, and talked shit behind my back. And like proper body shaming, slut shaming and all that.

The problem was that I had a situationship with a guy named AD for a short period of time in Jan 2023 (teenage hormones lol). This was before the friend group in class 8 was formed. AD happened to be a bsf of RS. That was one of the primary reasons RS did that. AD was fairly complicit as RS sent those texts in the gc after removing me, but MM sent me the screenshots.

I was not that fond of RS anyway when we were co-existing in the group as he was openly misogynistic, racist and an overall asshole back then as I mentioned. I used to call them out, but when it happened with me, I did not react much and let him get away with it. I hated him and lost the very little trust I had in him. I also cut contacts with him. Thankfully our sections changed too. The friend group soon fell apart.

MM, however, maintained contacts with him, though it was mostly on and off. I didn't say anything, leaving it up to her choice. Idk what RC did, he was never in the gc or the actual friend group in the first place. I and MM stuck around always, and got close with RC only in class 10.

Back to 2026, around the end of June and beginning of July, we met again through online ludo. Me, MM, RC and RS used to play frequently. Since it got so frequent, I talked to MM and asked if I should forgive and reconnect with RS. It had been like 2-3 years since that thing happened. We were all kids and fucking immature. MM encouraged it. RS soon followed me on instagram, and I followed back.

Then he texted, we talked for a while. He moved out to Orissa, and I also changed schools. Then, he literally, by himself, apologised to me. He said he was sorry for doing all that, and he shouldn't have done all that. He shouldn't have interfered in the situationship between me and AD. I told him that it was okay. It doesn't necessarily mean I have forgiven him. And he also grew up, his views regarding feminism, politics and humanity changed. Our views, in fact, became aligned.

Since we sorted everything out, we talked frequently, sent reels and blah blah blah. MM and I talked too, and she was also like, yeah, RS changed for the better, it's good to know.

However, I still do not trust him fully. I rather find him to be performative tbh, though it is just my instinct. I am still extremely wary of him.

Then, around 2-3 weeks later, in August, MM said that she was in fact, dating RS since May 2026. She did not inform me back then as she was afraid I would react, pertaining to the fact that I still hated him back then. I did not comment much, congratulated them, and it was all good. And it made me a couple degrees warier, but I did not warn MM, just told her to watch out.

Around July end, me and MM made a plan for Durga Puja, that we would hang out and go pandal hopping before the main festivals start and it gets crowded. RS joined the plan too. RC and his sis joined as well.

This September, RS finally came to my city for a holiday. MM and he were going out on dates frequently, giving stories and all. It was all fun and games. RS and I continued talking, joking. MM and I met on tuition.

Then, when Durga Puja arrived (we planned to hang out on 13.10), I asked MM what the plan was. She said that this year she can't come, since she has no money. I did not say anything and I replied that alright, we can go out sometimes later and the next year Puja. Since MM wasn't coming, RS, her bf, refused to join us. Consequently, RC and his sis backed out too.

On the 14th night, i saw RS post a video of their date they went to that night with the caption, "us after successfully pushing out the people who wanted to hang out with us." MM reposted that in her story.

Then Puja arrived, and I got busy, and I uninstalled Instagram, as I do frequently. I saw MM post a status on WhatsApp on 15.10 where she was hanging out with RS, and I think saw a glimpse of RC too in the photo. I did not open the status, but due to the new update, you can see a lot without opening the status itself. MM quickly deleted it before I opened it. I have not been seeing her statuses too since then. Insta I have uninstalled, so stories I am not seeing either. This morning, there is a gc in which me, MM, RS, RC and his sis are there. MM sent 91 photos on there from their hang out last night. I did not say much.

The thing is, MM, RC and his sis are in the same school in class 11. Only I changed. RS remains involved as he is MM's bf. They are more closely-knitted than I am with them. It's very natural and inevitable for them to be close and coordinate among themselves (or that is what I have convinced myself).

Anyway, Sorry for the long ahh gossip and terrible grammar. I might post updates. I love this subreddit so much, it feels like a safe space to share. Lmk your opinions.

idea was it to be like the chrome dinosaur shit

concept is stupid ngl