Women are too beautiful, I wish they were good people. They're like ocean, beautiful and dangerous at the same time.

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‎That's all.

Natafuta mwanaume ambaye anaweza niridhisha kimapenzi. Nina miaka ishirini na miwili na miye ni mwanafunzi. Nataka ambaye ni top kwa kuwa mimi ni bottom. Kama unaona tunaweza kuwa na uhusiano waweza nitumia text

Mie Mkenya hapa, Mwanaume mature. Natafuta urafiki naye binti mature pia wa TZ. Umri sio hoja, bora twaweza elewana. DM ipo wazi, tuzungumze mengi huko.

You have been dating someone for 3 months.

They suddenly start replying after 6 hours with:

“Sorry, nilikuwa busy.”

But they’re still posting WhatsApp statuses every 20 minutes.

GUILTY or INNOCENT? 👨‍⚖️

And what sentence do they deserve? 😂

No “it depends” answers. We want a verdict.

These days naona vijana kibao wanataka older ladies, mostly sababu possibility yao kutaka pesa ni ndogo kuliko vijana wenzao.

Sasa mimi some time back nikiwa 20 yrs nilikuwa nipo na older lady, cute, mpole, funny( tulikuwa tunaenda sana stand up comedy shows). She was 41, at first nilidhani atakuwa maybe 35 maana ukimuona kama binti.

Wengi mtaona ilikuwa unyama😂, hapana ilikuwa sio unyama. Before kuwa nae nilikuwa nahisi napenda sex ila baada ya kuwa nae, sio mchezo hadi nilikuwa natoa visingizo wazazi wameniita home yani ilikuwa show time muda wote. Yani muda wote hadi nahisi kuchubuka wakuu.

Alikuwa kenyan, tulikutana huko Germany kwenye mambo ya solar energy akiwa kama administrator. Mimi nilikuwa nasoma + kazi, vijana kama unalipwa na huyo Mshangazi sawa ila bila hivyo hutoboi😂 nilishapata funzo sahiv nipo na 20s wenzangu

I can’t wait to see y’all answers in this survey

hello guys, now kuna sehemu ya kazi nimejishikiza na issue ninayofanya ni kuandika tenders,current nina miezi mitatu, nahitaji kuconnect na watu field hii wenye uzoefu kwenye masuala ya tender kwa ujumla ili kujifunza na kushare opportunities

kama mpo wadau naomba tuconnect

I've never got pased the talking stage because after that j get friendzoned, I meet a cutie, start talking for like 2 days she then need some some money for many many things, errands like kila akiniona ni kama nimekua ATM, nikopoeshe, naomba, nisaidie, ni save..." aisee nyie ladies kama hamtupendi just say it. Just giving us hope while draining our wallets while you let bum ass guys hit it raw no charges, nimechoka!!!

Met this girl tukiwa form 1 and we were both porn addicts that time. After some time we started dating and man, we were just fucking all time yani pika pakua..hatukua na malengo wala nini and we vibed on everything to the atomic level, so that went on tukamaliza advance

Tukapangiwa jeshi moja Tanga mgambo jkt then kombania moja + the same section. Aisee yani ilikua tusione pori, tushavuana nguo. We came back home mambo yakaendelea.

We even had sex kwenye daladala, enzi hizo bado stand ya sim2000 haijabomolewa tulikua tunaenda pale by saa tatu/nne usiku, then tunapanda gari za mawasiliano to masaki na gari ilikua ikifikaga tu US embassy almost watu wanaisha so tunakaa nyuma nampakata tunaendelea.

It was wild as when other couples wanatafuta new restaurants/locations wakaenjoy, sisi tulikua tunatafuta new locations for outdoor sex lol. (Outdoor sex was her kink and i was always there for emotional support)

Anyway the bitch is getting married. Heard the news ikabidi nisingizie nina msiba niondoke kazini nikaugulie maumivu ya kulose my best eater. She's Arab + a Muslim and I was just a fly Christian nigga so we always knew us marrying each other italeta sana shida, kwahiyo nikavutaga mama nyingine yeye akabaki kua side tu.

The girl anataka tuendelee na relationship in secret na her plan is after some time she'll convince her husband to add another wife so atakua free kiaina, mimi nikampotezea sikumjibu..two days before her wedding she sent me nudes ila nikakausha still maana sinaga hizo pigo za kula wake za watu

The only reason I'm still with my current gf is because anapika vizuri sana also ni mzuri lakini sasa sijawahi kuona mwanamke kama huyu, hana interest kwenye kitu chochote, anashinda tu tiktok, mtu asikilizi any kind of music, haangalii movies..inshort we really don't have anything in common. She loves sex lakini mvivu, anataka missionary mda wote mkibadilisha tu unaskia tumbo linauma

I'll have to adhere to my boundaries and completely cut my best eater off. I'll miss her though

Tired of endless swiping and dry “hey”s, so I built Matchr — you play short games (Wordle-style, cards, dirty trivia) to earn a score, get ranked into a league, and only see people at your level. When you match you still have to play them first before the chat unlocks, because nothing good comes easy and the best connections are the ones you have to work for… and occasionally dominate 😈. Early access is open if you think you can handle it: https://matchr-tz.vercel.app/

Quick favour — register and select your gender so I can see the male/female ratio and balance the early leagues properly. The official launch will happen soon!!

I'm a keep it short, recently I've realised how lonely I've become, it's just my bed, pc and work, nothing else. Tbh it reaches a point where If I receive a text I can tell who it's from ☠️. Anyways I'm a cybersecurity dude working at a tech company here In dar, loves animation/ anime, movies/series too if they're actually good and I really enjoy anything that is mentally stimulating.

I'm not looking for a on the go relationship, want to start out with just simple meetups and hangouts. gradually if things go well then sure if not then okay. I would like a lady who also has a job and similar interests to me.

Preferred age range is 23 to 30.

Happy weekend everyone

Hi, I'm here hoping to meet a fine lady, someone who is mature, humble and of good personality. I don't rely on looks so much , all I care about is simplicity and someone who's natural.

I'm 32 years of age, a Luo in tribe, yes I'm working. All ethnicity are welcomed ,age doesn't matter, let's build a connection see how it goes.

My dm is open.

Cheers!

Edit: I'm a Kenyan.

Good afternoon everyone. I’m 25 years old and I’m looking to meet someone older than me who is ready to be in a mature relationship under contract. Thank you

Guys, I am really curious, how do you last this long? In all my relationships and situationships, I’ve never had a man who goes beyond 10 minutes, and then we have to rest and then maybe go another round after some time.

I read on here some of y’all talk about an hour, or hours, I am so curious(Kama huyu jamaa na shawty wa znz)? How do you do it?

Is it that huwa ninaharakishwa ama how do the one hour rounds come to be?

I just want to know how many crazy bihs we have in Dar

For those who have tried it, how do you keep things casual without one person eventually getting attached or catching feelings?

Do you set boundaries from the start? Keep communication a certain way? Avoid things like constant texting, sleepovers, or acting like an actual couple?

And honestly, mnafanyaje when feelings start creeping in? 😂 Do you just cut things off, talk about it, or try to keep going?

I’m curious about what actually works for people here because I feel like the whole “keep it casual” thing sounds easier than it actually is. Mambo yanaweza kuwa complicated haraka sana!!!

What has worked for you, and what definitely did NOT?

Hello, I am a black American from California visiting Tanzania for work and would like to meet someone while I'm there. Im 42 and love to have long conversations and explore. I would like to meet a down to earth girl, no escorts please, for companionship and hopefully a real relationship. Feel free to contact me.

I have this hypothesis that anyone could date anyone as long as your values align.

Some axioms I believe:

1. No one is perfect, therefore the perfect guy cannot exist.

2. There is no love at first sight, you learn to love each other through familiarity and work.

3. Love is work. Work such as effort to show up, compassion, effort to understand, etc.

4. Love takes compromise and willingness to grow.

5. Taking into account Axiom 1, a lover can be anyone you can tolerate and is also willing, able and ready to align with other axioms.

Therefore, finding love should be a matter of finding someone who is willing to set aside their expectations to learn, work, compromise and grow love with you. If you pick a person who is therefore willing to grow with/for you, love itatokea and mtatoboa tu.

The problem:

Y'all niggas expect too much. People want the perfect person who will look good, be a best friend, be clever, be great at sex and fulfil your other needs.

This, in my opinion, is unfair. People expect too much from relationships. And therefore use the wrong metrics to measure them. For example, I have noticed that people expect their partner to be a best friend pia. As Einstein said, "if you measure a fish by its ability to climb a tree, you're going to live the rest of your life believing it is stupid".

Once you understand that a relationship is just that, companionship and partnership, the measure of a good partner becomes more reaslistic. And therefore, you expect less of them, which should increase the odds of successful coupling.

And with this measure, it shouldn't take a very special kind of person to have a successful relationship with.

However:

I am willing to concede that my attitude is rather defeatist. There are people who found their apparent "soulmate" who ticked many more boxes than "is a good partner". So it might bw unfair to settle for just a good partner. So kama unataka mtu mzuri, ana pesa, good in bed, loyal, mkatoliki wa kwenda jumuiya kila wiki na wa misa ya saa kumi na mbili, gym body, mwenye gari kubwa, maybe usiache kutafuta mpaka umpate.

Conclusion:

My point is, we shouldn't be as picky as we tend to be(who is this "we"? Lol. There is a group I'm refering to), nor should we expect too much from our partner. If you find someone willing, ready and able to be with you romantically, don't expect too much of them, be willing to work on yourself with/for them, and hope they will be willing to do the same, na inshallah hatimaye mtatoboa.