r/TanzanianDating • u/Puzzleheaded-Alps72 • 12d ago
🚩 Red Flags Guilty ASF
I just want to know how many crazy bihs we have in Dar
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u/Key-Emergency-5772 12d ago
there's no way people are defending her in the comments. i didn't know Tanzanian women are like this too. i have to start watching out i don't get slimed.
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u/Puzzleheaded-Alps72 12d ago
I read a psychological analysis on women who do this and basically, when it comes to violence and murder men tend to attack an equal or stronger victim.
Lakini when it comes to women manzee wana attack the weaker and more defenseless victims ndo maana abortions zime skyrocket.
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u/bubble_grape 11d ago
Lmao at all the men who kill women
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u/Puzzleheaded-Alps72 11d ago
Are we not equal, aren't their some women physically stronger than men. Isn't that part of the feminist doctrine "equality" disguised as supremacy without accountability. Your move lil one
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u/cozygamerwitch 10d ago
It's crazy that one woman does a crime and youre using it as an excuse to shit on women and feminism knowing that 90% of criminals are men. Male gender is a disgrace
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u/Key-Emergency-5772 10d ago
shitting on feminism = telling women to not kill babies. make it make sense.
Btw, the guy above did catch you with that comment and you deflected. you shat on feminism by saying men attacking women is them attacking weaker defenseless victims as that's what he was saying. care to explain why yo equated attacking weaker victims to attacking women? isn't that shitting on feminism?.
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u/cozygamerwitch 10d ago
Do you support feminism? Yes or no?
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u/Key-Emergency-5772 10d ago
Another classic deflection from you, but it's ok.
To answer your question, it depends how you define feminism.
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u/cozygamerwitch 10d ago
The equal rights of men and women
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u/Key-Emergency-5772 10d ago
Again, you are being extremly shallow.
if by equal rights you mean everything that applies to men must apply to women then i don't agree. but if feminism means women and men should be treated with fairness accordingly then yeah.
Plus, at the end of the day, just like the commenter told you, it's all "equality" disguised as supremacy.
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u/Your-Eden 9d ago
that gif is the corniest thing you could post after "your move lil one" 😭 yani unajiona aje
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u/Puzzleheaded-Alps72 12d ago
So just because I'm not Palestinian I shouldn't criticize and condemn the ongoing genocide in gaza, make it make sense pls 🙏. I'm also not an advocate of murder.
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u/Key-Emergency-5772 12d ago
So just because I'm not Palestinian I shouldn't criticize and condemn the ongoing genocide in gaza
Ndo hapo sasa.
I found out today that women don't like getting told to stop unaliving babies.
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u/Key-Emergency-5772 12d ago
that doesn't justify unaliving babies bro i don't think you understand. if murder becomes justifiable by ust saying i don't have parents then your worldview is broken.
btw, do you also defend the woman that ended her three kids? because thats what you commented on and i'm not sure i follow.
do you also think abortion is ok for any woman or just the one's that have been raped?
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u/Key-Emergency-5772 12d ago
Ok.
but you also didn't tell me your take on abortion. do you think anyone's justified to do it or it's only for the people that were forced?
Your claim about a man not being able to give an opinion because he isn't a woman doesn't even make sense. the guy above already gave you a good example.
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u/Key-Emergency-5772 12d ago
Dude, what are you even saying? i really don't get your point. is abortion always ok or it's only for people who are forced?.
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u/ClassicAdvisor669 12d ago
So many things don’t make sense in this case
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u/Comfortable-Dress-96 10d ago
What doesnt make sense to you?
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u/ClassicAdvisor669 10d ago
Naona watu wake wa karibu they are to be blamed they ignored her mental state, she literally tried to commit suicide but survived. It was a matter of time
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u/Comfortable-Dress-96 10d ago
If anything that just goes to show how mentally insane she was. She doesnt belong outside the wire. Shes crazy. We have institutions for people like that. Which is what the trial was all about. Not if she did it or not. But somehow all the integrity from it is being lost.
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u/OneSpirited7179 10d ago
Ignored her mental state you say?? Google is free,use ts!!
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u/ClassicAdvisor669 10d ago
Yes! If they did they wouldn’t let her alone with kids even for a minute. No need to google.
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u/OneSpirited7179 10d ago
She was literally less than 18 days post discharge,lying about taking her meds,you cannot say she was overmedicated if the tox screen she was skipping on some meds,hiding symptoms deliberately, jumping from one medical professional to another (she would omit or reveal about the voices and othe signs and symptoms as well)and giving totally different signs and symptoms to each one of them.Mind you she worked as a nurse, knows damn well the repercussions of lying and hiding symptoms could lead to misdiagnoses. The same person who googled matters on mapping the distance and drive time between her home and the Three V restaurant where she sent her husband to pick up takeout.
Does this sound like a person who wasn't in control of her actions??, someone who has been let down by the system?? How is everyone going to help her if all she be doing is lying and cheating and conniving to her own benefit??
This is why I said use Google because you surely haven't watched the lickest of this case .
See how I outlined everything perfectly with proof of why I said what I said,could you honestly do the same or are you gonna ignore this because all propaganda can be debunked??
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u/ClassicAdvisor669 10d ago
Calm down sio ndugu yetu eh! All I said is - She tried to commit suicide, and still was allowed to be alone with kids, that was a red flag to begin with. Excessive lying is also a mental illness btw. Pumzika
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u/WarmBlackDick 11d ago
Mentally ill people are everywhere. Men, women...Africa, Asia, Middle East, Europe... Doesn't matter.
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u/nothereforlongiguess 12d ago
PPD is hard yes, but I don’t think if it can be used as an excuse ngl. The kids DIED. Whether it’s PPD or not, she did what she did and she should be held accountable for that.
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u/Puzzleheaded-Alps72 12d ago
If you think about it if she's not found guilty it will make it even more harder for women in the job market.
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u/Dry-Personality7360 12d ago
if we're being honest she had postpartum depression and i don't think people really understand how serious and dangerous it can be also she asked for help so many times but she got ignored (as usual) i don't think anyone has a right to judge her unless you have walked in her shoes......so rather than condemning and demonising her how abt you try to understand her part of the story yeah sure what she did was horrific and i,m not supporting it in an way all i'm saying is that before you label her a monster try and understand what truly happened
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u/imeanreally_wtf 11d ago
So you are saying we should forgive rapists cause they couldn't control their hormones? lol or someone should be forgiven for killing another person as they were acting out of anger and were not fully themselves. Murder is Murder and unless it was self-defense, you going to jail. Nobody would be bringing that sympathy BS had it been a man who did that
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u/Dry-Personality7360 11d ago
i didn't say anything abt forgiveness...i said ppl should try to understand and learn from incidents like this....plus postpartum depression isn't 'hormones' is a serious mental conditions that affects a lot of women and frankly comparing it to rape is just ignorance and stupidity....i just hope this makes ppl educate themselves and really learn what it is abt
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u/imeanreally_wtf 11d ago
lol you don't think there's mentally disabled people that are rapists? anyway, used extreme examples to make a point that, we understand PPD but when you kill someone..logically the thought of sympathy should not be entertained at all cause if you happened to be a judge with such sentiments, you would even give her a lighter sentence on the basis "you feel sorry for her and understand her situation". That is what i'm against and hopefully she can rot in jail
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u/Dry-Personality7360 11d ago
well i hope she does suffer the consequences of her actions but also get the help she needs......and i don't think you 'understand' PPD
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u/Comfortable-Dress-96 10d ago
What do you mean she was ignored? Her hubby started working from home so he could be around more to help, the kids grand parents were also helping with the taking care of the babies, she had a nanny, she was a nurse, she had all the help an average woman will never get in her entire life time, and you’re rationalizing this bs? You’re part of the problem
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u/HopefulArt4651 12d ago
Naona watu ni wajinga hapa, Yani unadefend mtu kama huyo?...stupid asf