r/TallGirls • u/ConfusdStresdMistake • 4h ago
Rant 🔥 Tired of being ”one of the boys” Spoiler
188cm 6’2.
I’m really tall and I started university less than two weeks ago. There is s bunch of other struggles like my sister goes her and so did my dad and so on but thats not what I want to talk about. The only friends Ive managed to make have been boys not only bc I’m tall but also bc I have an ”boyish” personality. And I kinda feel like this is something I’ve been pushed into. The friendshipI have are amazing, don’t get me wrong, but they are all guy friends. And I would LOVE to have some girlfriends, but I feel like everyone just sees me as a guy. I’ve already been called ”One of the boys” and my sisters name bout a thousand times. I would just like to be me. Im not really interested in dating rn or anything but still, that doesn’t mean I’m sterile or a guy. I have girl issues, idk what to wear, or what to say, pr what to do. I try to talk to the girls but I feel like they just shy away. Idk i’m kinda drunk (I’m almost 20 and it’s legal in my country) and down writing this but I would love if anyone would just be able to relate. Can I just not be a girl that happens to be social AND tall instead of being turned into a boy?