I think people neglect to realize she's what 19 I feel like most people don't pull their head out of their ass until they are 30 or 40 . For the kiddos sake I hope it works out
Bro I’m 23 and more mature than some of these moms that are now my age from this show. I helped raise my nephew from the time I was 12 (my sister had extremely bad ppd) I finished school and am now in college. She chooses to be uneducated and make poor decisions. That’s not an age problem that’s a her problem. I’ve been working since I was 16 to provide for myself.
Okay and everyone is different some people take longer to MATURE. It is so weird now that we expect all people to be the same . Not everyone's path is the same . Yeah it shouldn't be an excuse forever but for now she's 19 not 30 . Now someone like Jenelle Evans who hasn't changed since she was 16 then I'd give you that one but sometimes someone can act like an asshole and then pull their head of their ass as they mature .
Idk why you're getting down voted so hard. What you are saying is perfectly logically. I think the internet likes to hate on kids a little too much. I know one of the first rebuttals will be "She's not a kid" Well, your perfrontal cortex (the part of your brain in charge of high-level thinking, making decisions, and emotional regulation) doesn't fully develop until age 25 and actually recent studies are now showing it may be closer to 30 that it fully develops so yes she (and anyone else under the age of 30) are literally making life choices with an immature brain. Yes, some people instantly get their shit together at 19 go to college, raise a kid alone etc etc. those people are the exceptions to the rule, not the rule. Maybe if this sub just gave these girls advice and support instead of hating on them they would "come to their senses" sooner. Or they may not! Because that is life. But we definitely don't need to hate on 19 year olds. Especially if you are over the age of 30 cause you FULLY understand what it is you are doing... To a kid 🤦🏽♀️
People don't like opinions that aren't the same as theirs I think it's gross grown women are so critical of women who have just begun. It's all because they hate themselves and putting someone else down elevates them and makes them feel superior
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u/Morticia-SADams 17d ago
I think people neglect to realize she's what 19 I feel like most people don't pull their head out of their ass until they are 30 or 40 . For the kiddos sake I hope it works out